Poll: A possibly moral question for all the single ladies

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hazabaza1

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Could also be done for the not so single ladies but it'd probably work better if you were single. Also straight helps a bit more.

ANYWAY
First of all, think of all of your exs (ex-s? exes?). Yes, even that one. Not pretty, I know, but they count.
Now out of all of those, pick your favourite. The one you got along best with, the one you had the most fun with, whatever.

Now, if you could, I want you to go into those marvelous imaginations of yours, and place yourself in a scenario.
Imagine you're around 35 years old (or current age if older) and are currently single. No kids, unless you already have some for real.
You're just milling around in the front garden, happy and content with how life is going, no complications, no kids or relationship to tie you down, you're free and happy and in a stable position.

However, as you're doing your front garden stuff, be it raking leaves, sitting around drinking some grape drank, or praising satan you notice someone walk up to you. As he gets closer, his shape gets clearer and clearer. It's that favourite ex of yours! What ever could he be here for?

You find out, as he approaches you, he stops, and simply says
"Have my child".
To elaborate, this isn't him trying to rape you. This is him literally just asking you to have his child. You can be impregnated artificially or through more natural manners, your choice. Once the child is born you can be a part of its life or not, but as a catch you ex doesn't want a relationship, so you can't be all one big happy family.
Would you do it? And why, if so? Why not?
 

bleys2487

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Similar situation I was in. I told him to 'F*ck off and stay lost." Haven't seen him since.
 

game-lover

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I don't have any exes.

That being said... most likely it'd be no. I don't want children. Ever.

I think the only chance that'd change is if circumstances had me still a virgin in spite of all previous relationships. Then I might possibly maybe consider it. Just for the experience of sex. And potentially the experience of childbirth as part of me is curious about that.

But then, I'd leave it at that. Because I am not down for motherhood.
 

AstylahAthrys

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At 35 and single and childless? My favorite ex is pretty cool, and it just didn't work out because of basic compatibility issues in the romantic side, but he was still nice and we're still friends. No hard feelings at all. So long as he provided for half the expenses and/or lived as roommates who helped care for the kid, I would absolutely do it. That and his mom is super awesome and would be super helpful.
 

roushutsu

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I personally would say no. I don't care how much "fun" the ex might have been, if I'm going to have kids I want to try my damnedest to have a family together. My parents have been married for over 30 years and through the thick and thin they stayed together and provided for me and my brother. That's the kind of family I want for my children. The whole "Bear my kid but I don't wanna be with you" just sounds like he would only view me as nothing more than a baby machine, and like hell I would subject myself to that line of thinking.
 

Dags90

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game-lover said:
And potentially the experience of childbirth as part of me is curious about that.
I've heard epidurals pretty much make you numb from the waist down while this happens.
 

Vault101

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I only have one ex....and he wouldnt be my favorite

and in that case I would not only tell him where to get off but also threatan him with a pair a seceters for being obsessive and creepy
 

Chemical Alia

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Ew, no. I only have one ex as well, and if I have no kids in five years, it's for the same reason that I have no kids now: They don't fit with my life and I've never wanted them. Some creep who wanted to get army married twelve years ago showing is unlikely to change that for me v:
 

redknightalex

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Ha, no. Definitely no. I have a strong dislike for children, don't ask me why because I wouldn't know, so doing something like this that not just changes your body but also your psyche as well? No no no. My body, not yours.

And you don't necessarily need to be straight to answer the question. It may help, sure, but many women have very distinct feelings on children regardless of orientation.