Poll: Are Going To Try to Stay Abstinent Until Marriage?

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There was a topic like this at another forum and it gave some worthwhile discussion, so I decided to being it to the good ol' Escapist. So what do my fellow escapists plan for this little escapade of sex and marriage?

Personally, I don't plan on having sex before marriage, but I don't plan on not having sex either, what happens happens.
 
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I was a... lets say... early bloomer. I've come to realize practice makes perfect too, so don't shy away from the possibility of making someone feel good and learning more tricks to make those I care about feel great.

Enough said.
 
Cliff_m85

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I find it stupid to try to save yourself for marriage.

*waits for people to start disagreeing*


Ok, my position.

For the female: Do you really want to experience the pain of first time sex on such a highly anticipated night? Not to mention the nerves that go with it as well as having your new husband, rather than fully give in to you, be worried the whole time since he's causing you discomfort?

For males: Do you really want to save yourself and give her all 14 seconds of bliss on her wedding night? Not to mention all the nerves that go with it, being insecure completely and requiring her to, rather than enjoy the experience, coax you into feeling comfortable with it.
 
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Cliff_m85 said:
I find it stupid to try to save yourself for marriage.

*waits for people to start disagreeing*


Ok, my position.

For the female: Do you really want to experience the pain of first time sex on such a highly anticipated night? Not to mention the nerves that go with it as well as having your new husband, rather than fully give in to you, be worried the whole time since he's causing you discomfort?

For males: Do you really want to save yourself and give her all 14 seconds of bliss on her wedding night? Not to mention all the nerves that go with it, being insecure completely and requiring her to, rather than enjoy the experience, coax you into feeling comfortable with it.
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While I completely agree with you, if by some stroke of luck both waited it might be nice thing, albeit a awkward one.
 
Cowabungaa

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No. That special feeling I want for my first time goes far deeper than the ritual of marriage, waaaay deeper.
 
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S53 said:
Syndef said:
This is a ploy to find out who's still a virgin!
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Found one. Yes, I plan to.
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Oh ho! The trap is working!

Anyway, here's a thought that popped into my head: How many people consider any sort of sex (oral, anal, etc.) to be breaking the whole "Abstinence before marriage" thing?

Let's just say I've met some interesting people.
 
Cowabungaa

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Wardog13 said:
Assassinator said:
No. That special feeling I want for my first time goes far deeper than the ritual of marriage, waaaay deeper.
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I see what you did there.
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Ooo you and your dirty little mind. No dear sir, I was completely serious. I see it as an almost spiritual connection with my partner, where we would completely 100% trust eachother and be totally comfortable to allow such an intimate thing to happen. Sex as a sign for a much deeper and stronger bond.
Marriage is a beautifull ritual, but to me it isn't comparable to what I wrote above.
 
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