Poll: Asperger Syndrome [please vote, even if you don't know what it is]

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Ignignoct

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Xhakhal said:
My sister, cousin, uncle, brother, father and some assorted other relatives have either been diagnosed with Asperger syndrome or ADHD (and some both).

I myself am free of them, though, but I live with them every day.

Them, and bipolar disorder, that two of the people in my family are diagnosed with.
Yech...

Bipolar...

Now THERE'S an ill that really grinds my gears.
 

mokes310

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Ignignoct said:
mokes310 said:
My cousin has it, and she's been getting better every year. I believe that she'll be attending the University of Washington this coming fall and I couldn't be happier for her.
Could you do me a solid and give a quick run down of what she had and how she's "better" now?

I'd like to know from someone with personal experience, who doesn't personally have it.
Sure, I'll be happy to. From a very young age, everyone in the family knew that she was a bit different. She was overly shy, rarely spoke, and extremly awkward in social settings. She would often verbally lash out at people, and act out to get attention. She was diagnosed with Aspergers Syndrome when she was eight I believe, and from then on, she spent a large majority of her time in specialized schools.

When she hit 14 or so, she went to a school out of state that specialized in teaching students with Aspergers how to learn, adapt, and basically inject themselves into any and all social settings.

She spent four years or so at that school, and when she came back, she was a completly different person. Sure, she still exhibits signs of some communication apprehension, but for the most part, after her tenure at that school, you would never know that she was diagnosed with Aspergers. You would just think that she was a little shy.

Hope that helps.
 

rryyann

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LordMarcusX said:
5 out of 12 votes say they actually have Asperger's Syndrome? It's the new A.D.D.

Not to say Asperger's is a joke. To have it is potentially debilitating. But being anti-social, shy, or agoraphobic is not to have Asperger's. There are serious neurological issues at work with Asperger's.
Yeah, everyone in my school is into the whole "Oh I have OCD"
 

nikomas1

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I have a mild case, it makes me socially awkward, and if that wasn't harmful enough already theres several things beyond that, but Asperger is a disorder that isn't easily noticed, many with it never know they have it. No one could just talk to me and just notice it.

And I'm tired of all these people online claiming they have Asperger, theres many more symptoms in Asp than just social awkwardness.

superbleeder12 said:
Its just an excuse to be socially awkward, nothing more.
So, I find this very insulting, you make yourself look like a complete idiot.
 

Ignignoct

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mokes310 said:
Ignignoct said:
mokes310 said:
My cousin has it, and she's been getting better every year. I believe that she'll be attending the University of Washington this coming fall and I couldn't be happier for her.
Could you do me a solid and give a quick run down of what she had and how she's "better" now?

I'd like to know from someone with personal experience, who doesn't personally have it.
Sure, I'll be happy to. From a very young age, everyone in the family knew that she was a bit different. She was overly shy, rarely spoke, and extremly awkward in social settings. She would often verbally lash out at people, and act out to get attention. She was diagnosed with Aspergers Syndrome when she was eight I believe, and from then on, she spent a large majority of her time in specialized schools.

When she hit 14 or so, she went to a school out of state that specialized in teaching students with Aspergers how to learn, adapt, and basically inject themselves into any and all social settings.

She spent four years or so at that school, and when she came back, she was a completly different person. Sure, she still exhibits signs of some communication apprehension, but for the most part, after her tenure at that school, you would never know that she was diagnosed with Aspergers. You would just think that she was a little shy.

Hope that helps.
Thank ya sir.

That was a lot clearer and objective than the rest of the flamebait here.
 

Sion_Barzahd

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I know someone who i swear falls onto the austism spectrum. I'd always thought her as just odd until i studied Autism.

It does sounds like something that'd be hard to deal with though. I couldn't imagine myself handling it, especially compared to how i am now.
 

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superbleeder12 said:
Its just an excuse to be socially awkward, nothing more.
I could kiss you, I swear it to god. I'm really curious when "this little kid's an awkward little jerk" became "this perfect little snowflake has an excuse to be annoying". Every action a person takes is controlled by the brain. If we walk down the road of "well, if he does something bad, it must be something wrong with the brain, we can't blame him", where does it end? Even if there is something wrong with a person's brain, he's still responsible for the actions he takes.

If something wrong with your brain makes you a jerk, you're still a jerk. If something in your brain makes you unpopular, you're still unpopular. If something in your brain makes you stupid, you're still stupid. Don't make excuses, because no one has a choice in what brain they got. You got the short end of the stick, some other people got the better deal. But no one lets you play in the NBA if you're 5'2" with the excuse that "well, I was born short, so I shouldn't be denied the privileges of being tall."
 

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Seldon2639 said:
superbleeder12 said:
Its just an excuse to be socially awkward, nothing more.
I could kiss you, I swear it to god. I'm really curious when "this little kid's an awkward little jerk" became "this perfect little snowflake has an excuse to be annoying". Every action a person takes is controlled by the brain. If we walk down the road of "well, if he does something bad, it must be something wrong with the brain, we can't blame him", where does it end? Even if there is something wrong with a person's brain, he's still responsible for the actions he takes.

If something wrong with your brain makes you a jerk, you're still a jerk. If something in your brain makes you unpopular, you're still unpopular. If something in your brain makes you stupid, you're still stupid. Don't make excuses, because no one has a choice in what brain they got. You got the short end of the stick, some other people got the better deal. But no one lets you play in the NBA if you're 5'2" with the excuse that "well, I was born short, so I shouldn't be denied the privileges of being tall."
Every action is controlled by the brain, so what if you have a slightly dysfunctional one then? Or in computer terms, what if you have a couple of irreparable day-0 bugs? It's true you can't blame your actions on it, but it is still a cause for it.
 

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I've heard of Aspergers Syndrome, and a few Escapists have it (Including our very own Indigo_Dingo if I'm not mistaken), but I'm a little confused as to what it actually is.
 

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nikomas1 said:
Seldon2639 said:
superbleeder12 said:
Its just an excuse to be socially awkward, nothing more.
I could kiss you, I swear it to god. I'm really curious when "this little kid's an awkward little jerk" became "this perfect little snowflake has an excuse to be annoying". Every action a person takes is controlled by the brain. If we walk down the road of "well, if he does something bad, it must be something wrong with the brain, we can't blame him", where does it end? Even if there is something wrong with a person's brain, he's still responsible for the actions he takes.

If something wrong with your brain makes you a jerk, you're still a jerk. If something in your brain makes you unpopular, you're still unpopular. If something in your brain makes you stupid, you're still stupid. Don't make excuses, because no one has a choice in what brain they got. You got the short end of the stick, some other people got the better deal. But no one lets you play in the NBA if you're 5'2" with the excuse that "well, I was born short, so I shouldn't be denied the privileges of being tall."
Every action is controlled by the brain, so what if you have a slightly dysfunctional one then? Or in computer terms, what if you have a couple of irreparable day-0 bugs? It's true you can't blame your actions on it, but it is still a cause for it.
You're screwed. But in the same way I hate Vista when it has a bug, I'm not going to say "oh, it's just an error, I shouldn't hold the system responsible for it". I mean, would you really want to use a buggy system, especially when there's no way to fix it? Do we stop holding people responsible for being ignorant, for being violent, for being mean?
 

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Seldon2639 said:
nikomas1 said:
Seldon2639 said:
superbleeder12 said:
Its just an excuse to be socially awkward, nothing more.
I could kiss you, I swear it to god. I'm really curious when "this little kid's an awkward little jerk" became "this perfect little snowflake has an excuse to be annoying". Every action a person takes is controlled by the brain. If we walk down the road of "well, if he does something bad, it must be something wrong with the brain, we can't blame him", where does it end? Even if there is something wrong with a person's brain, he's still responsible for the actions he takes.

If something wrong with your brain makes you a jerk, you're still a jerk. If something in your brain makes you unpopular, you're still unpopular. If something in your brain makes you stupid, you're still stupid. Don't make excuses, because no one has a choice in what brain they got. You got the short end of the stick, some other people got the better deal. But no one lets you play in the NBA if you're 5'2" with the excuse that "well, I was born short, so I shouldn't be denied the privileges of being tall."
Every action is controlled by the brain, so what if you have a slightly dysfunctional one then? Or in computer terms, what if you have a couple of irreparable day-0 bugs? It's true you can't blame your actions on it, but it is still a cause for it.
You're screwed. But in the same way I hate Vista when it has a bug, I'm not going to say "oh, it's just an error, I shouldn't hold the system responsible for it". I mean, would you really want to use a buggy system, especially when there's no way to fix it? Do we stop holding people responsible for being ignorant, for being violent, for being mean?
Sure, why don't you find something/someone that can update me from a vista to a windows 7 then? I have time.
 

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nikomas1 said:
Sure, why don't you find something/someone that can update me from a vista to a windows 7 then? I have time.
That's where the analogy goes off the rails. Sad to say, there's no way to debug the human brain (at least not with complete efficacy), but that doesn't mitigate the bugs themselves. The only way to really debug the human race is for maladaptive traits to not be passed on to future generations. Sad to say, we don't do much quality control in that area.
 
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NewGeekPhilosopher said:
There are more books dealing with people with Autism than Asperger's Syndrome. People know who Rain Man was because there was a movie about a guy with autism, but I haven't seen anything directly about people with Asperger's Syndrome. Only last year in Australia were people with Asperger's given eligibility for government support to pay for medication, but once you turn 18 they take some of that support away from you even though you still have a need for that medication to manage your related anxiety issues.
Sorry if this has been said, but read 'the curious incident of the dog in the night time' by Mark Haddon, I'm pretty sure the character has Asperger's and its written from his perspective.
 

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First time i heard of this was when i watched Boston Legal, i couldnt believe there was such a thing, and the Lawyers behaviors irritated the hell out of me...when i found out it was a condition, i felt pity but i was still irritated. im so sorry if you are afflicted by this, i just hope theres a way out of it.
 

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Jumplion said:
I've heard of Aspergers Syndrome, and a few Escapists have it (Including our very own Indigo_Dingo if I'm not mistaken), but I'm a little confused as to what it actually is.
Well, as many pointed out, one of the major problems is the inability to function well in a larger group, I (For example, people with asp vary greatly) can be very talkative and social in closed circles, with people I know, but I can't, just can't make new friend well or even talk to strangers all that well.

Another major symptom is that people with asp like to go by very strict habits, and dislike change a great lot. Interest are usually very focused, way beyond fan-boy levels, one guy in my class, for example, is completely obsessed with busses, he knows most bus makes and he has the whole areas (Stockholm) timetables in his head. In my case its computers, and everything military, from guns to history.

This also relates to food, many with aspersion wont eat much stuff, and likes to eat about the same every week.

For some, especially in the teens, hygiene is a thing people with Aspergers neglect.
 

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Seldon2639 said:
nikomas1 said:
Sure, why don't you find something/someone that can update me from a vista to a windows 7 then? I have time.
That's where the analogy goes off the rails. Sad to say, there's no way to debug the human brain (at least not with complete efficacy), but that doesn't mitigate the bugs themselves. The only way to really debug the human race is for maladaptive traits to not be passed on to future generations. Sad to say, we don't do much quality control in that area.
Well then, if you cant "fix" us, please just accept us for what we am, a little bit different.
 

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willard3 said:
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willard3 said:
There's also a lot of stereotypes going around about extremely awkward nerds diagnosing themselves with Asperger's, when they really have nothing of the type.

*looks suspiciously around*


I'm pretty sure I don't have it; I'm just fairly introverted. But once I get to know you a little, I'm perfectly comfortable with talking. If I get to know you a lot...watch out. ;) Plus, two of my best friends are girls who know absolutely nothing about video games or gaming, so I don't treat girls like a different species or something either.
well, ppl with AS Very commonly fit into the 'Nerd'group (in many traits/symptoms that i prefer not to get into listing atm unless somewhat nesicary)

i think anyone who thinks they may have aspergers should first read thru this http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asperger_syndrome and see if this article closely describes them or not
First of all, Wikipedia is not a valid medical source. You cannot just diagnose yourself with it from reading Wikipedia...you can use it to get a general idea, but DO NOT go around trumpeting that you have it unless you visit an applicable doctor first.

Too often it's easy for people to act completely inappropriate and say "oh well I have Asperger's, so it's not my fault", even when they may have nothing of the sort.
lol im not saying wikipedia as a whole is a good medical source.
BUT i do know for a fact that i do have asperger syndrome, and when i first read this, i found it described me nearly perfectly
 

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nikomas1 said:
Well then, if you cant "fix" us, please just accept us for what we am, a little bit different.
We also can't really "fix" a lack of intelligence (which is also largely inborn). One choice is to "accept", the other choice is to "reject". I'm not advocating one or the other on a national level, but in the same way someone might not want to be around unintelligent people, or unkind people, or fat people, he may not want to be around those with other mental illnesses.

Similarly, in the same way I wouldn't hire someone with an IQ of 90 to be a CEO, people give fewer or more opportunities based on how little or much potential one has (which includes inborn mental illnesses).