Poll: At what time did you come out of the closet?

[Zack Alklazaris]

Haven't told many people about my sporadic bondage interests, mainly out of fear of negative judgment.

Is bondage that much of an issue where you live? Its something you generally don't talk about here in the states, but honestly no one would see it as a big deal. I think everyone tries it at least once in their lives.

One of the great things bout being Bi who married a woman is you don't have to tell your parents. As long as your wife knows about it things are rather smooth sailing. I don't ever wish to tell my parents, mostly because I'm afraid of how they would react or worse my grandparents. Heck they may very well take back my trust fund and we can't have that.

The only problem is with so little time for experimentation in between when I became sexual active and when I got married the whole "gay side" of my life is more mystery than I would prefer. I have never even kissed a boy, yet I am certain I am attracted to them. Its one of those things that sort of saddens me that I will never discover because I denied myself the belief I was bi for so long.

 

[Handbag1992]

Well I'm not completely "out", my parents don't know but my friends do. It's not a big deal for me to have my parents know.

Oh I was in that situation for a while, let me give you some advice. When your parents ask for the sd card in the digital camera so they can take it to tesco and print off some pictures, make sure you give them the correct card.

Otherwise they end up looking at man-on-man in the middle of a supermarket. I still cringe at the memory of the conversation afterwards.

 

[Sandytimeman]

I am personally hesitant to tell my own parents and family because they are religious, hell I work in a midwest disel shop, I'm pretty sure my own co-workers would beat me with wrenches if they knew I was gay.

But my closest friends know, and I'm in love with a very understanding man whose family is very accepting of his sexuality. He understands it will take time for me to fully come out.

My advice, take your time until you can at least support yourself. And all those GLBT type sites are just copy paste info on how to come out, I tried all those for support myself with no real luck.

 

[Knight Captain Kerr]

I'm bi and nobody who knows gives a shit, the way it should be.

 

[Girl With One Eye]

Oh I was in that situation for a while, let me give you some advice. When your parents ask for the sd card in the digital camera so they can take it to tesco and print off some pictures, make sure you give them the correct card.

Otherwise they end up looking at man-on-man in the middle of a supermarket. I still cringe at the memory of the conversation afterwards.

Or woman-on-woman in my case, anyway that story is both funny and painful. I hope it all worked out?

My mum once walked in on me and my girlfriend naked in my bed, we were both under the covers so I'm not sure if she noticed but she walked right out!

 

[Zen Toombs]

Well, I'm a bisexual and I mostly come out to people in casual conversation, in a

Spoiler: .bi the way. sort of fashion.

"bi the way" sort of fashion.

[sub]yes that was a terrible pun, deal with it.[/sub]

 

[Bruenin]

I will never come out, there are cookies in here
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