I think there is a lot of reactionism going on around the character. People criticize the character without bothering to do a deeper read because she looks sexist on the surface, and people fight back against that by claiming not only is she not sexist, she is actually super feminist!
I think the truth might be that she is just a character in a game. Overt sexual content is not inherently sexist, and just because Bayonetta is a badass doesn't mean she is actually a "strong" female character. It can be hard to actually tell where sexism and feminism start and end.
Here is the determining thing for me personally. When I play Bayonetta I feel good as a woman. I find her to be an uplifting female character. I can't quantify it, I can't really give you reasons, and I certainly wouldn't expect or insist that everyone else feel the same way. I play Bayonetta and I usually walk away feeling good about myself as a woman. There are very few characters that do that for me, and even fewer are highly sexualized. I honestly can't think of any other highly sexualized female characters like that off the top of my head, but a couple probably do exist. So I guess for me she is feminist?
I think the truth might be that she is just a character in a game. Overt sexual content is not inherently sexist, and just because Bayonetta is a badass doesn't mean she is actually a "strong" female character. It can be hard to actually tell where sexism and feminism start and end.
Here is the determining thing for me personally. When I play Bayonetta I feel good as a woman. I find her to be an uplifting female character. I can't quantify it, I can't really give you reasons, and I certainly wouldn't expect or insist that everyone else feel the same way. I play Bayonetta and I usually walk away feeling good about myself as a woman. There are very few characters that do that for me, and even fewer are highly sexualized. I honestly can't think of any other highly sexualized female characters like that off the top of my head, but a couple probably do exist. So I guess for me she is feminist?
Also, she isn't a single mom. The little girl is actually young Bayonetta, and she mistakes herself as her mom. There is a kind of time loop thing going on. Which is, in my opinion, one of the biggest missed opportunities ever. Bayonetta's interactions with Cereza are easily her best character moments.