Poll: Calling a girl (or guy)
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If you call her today, be prepared to do something, its saturday. Call her tomorrow afternoon If you want to chat with her for awhile. I'm to old to give any recommendation based on texting... I don't text.
Psh, right now. Theres no wait. Just do it. Also,
I FELL IN LOVE WITH THE GIRL AT THE ROCK SHOW
SHE SAID WHAT AND I TOLD HER THAT I DIDNT KNOW
SHE'S SO COOL WHEN I'M SNEAKING THOUGHT HER WINDOW
EVERYTHING'S BETTER WHEN SHE'S AROUND
I CAN WAIT TIL HER PARENTS GO OUTTA TOWN
I FELL IN LOVE WITH THE GIRL AT THE ROCK SHOW♥
I FELL IN LOVE WITH THE GIRL AT THE ROCK SHOW
SHE SAID WHAT AND I TOLD HER THAT I DIDNT KNOW
SHE'S SO COOL WHEN I'M SNEAKING THOUGHT HER WINDOW
EVERYTHING'S BETTER WHEN SHE'S AROUND
I CAN WAIT TIL HER PARENTS GO OUTTA TOWN
I FELL IN LOVE WITH THE GIRL AT THE ROCK SHOW♥
Fuck that. Relationships are complicated enough without adding all these stupid, pointless mind games. "I'm interested in her so I'll act disinterested in order to make her interested in me which will make her act disinterested because apparently that's the cool thing to do when you're interested so we'll both act disinterested in each other and somehow that will be totally awesome. Best relationship ever!". Not coming across as creepy is one thing, but come on. If you want to call, then call, it's a phone number, YOU USE IT TO CALL PEOPLE.Crazygit said:
Just do it the following day. I mean, if she remembers you and still seems to like you, then she should be flattered that you also remembered her and decided to called her. If she doesn't, then however long you wait won't make a difference. It's not very complicated.
If you need a good rule of thumb, go with two days, but it really just depends on when it feels right. You have to fuck up a few times to learn what works.
Being flirty on a first contact is a great thing!!! That's where it all starts! If you think flirtation starts on, say, the first or second date, you've lost before you've even tried. What's crazy, is expecting something to happen without first playing around. That play is important. It sets the context for everything else we try to do!RAKtheUndead said:
ed- btw, boo your negative self-image. we're only as awesome as we think we are. drop that silly mindset, know that you're awesome, and you'll find your own flirting opportunity. Continually smacking yourself accomplishes nothing but a red, sore cheek. And anger. Boo anger!
Woah, you lucky little git. Sounds like a fun night indeed.
In any case, I'd call her the next day, chat a bit about the concert and try to set up a date for the following weekend. That's what my gut tells me at least.
Not sure if I'd dáre to, but it just sounds right.
In any case, I'd call her the next day, chat a bit about the concert and try to set up a date for the following weekend. That's what my gut tells me at least.
Not sure if I'd dáre to, but it just sounds right.