Poll: Cheating

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Tourette

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In my line of work you get propositioned a lot and you cannot always be strong and say no which is a good job I work away though.
 

Queen Michael

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Nope, it's against my principles. And let's face it; the main reason that I wouldn't do it is that I'd never get the opportunity anyway.
 

Wilfy

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Yes, but I never have. I got close to, but I broke it off with my then-girlfriend before anything could happen between me and the other girl.
 

Trivun

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Hell, everyone is capable of cheating. As long as there exists more people than just you and your partner in the world, the physical capability for people to cheat will be present. As far as actually doing so, that's where it gets fuzzy. It's down to whether or not the person is willing to or not. As for me, I'm all for having plenty of casual sex (if I could get it, damned virginity...) when I'm single, but as soon as I enter into a proper relationship I will definitely stay faithful to my partner, and my partner alone. It's as simple as that as far as I'm concerned.
 

Trivun

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Tourette said:
In my line of work you get propositioned a lot and you cannot always be strong and say no which is a good job I work away though.
Why, what's your line of work then?
 

Haunted Serenity

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maninahat said:
I firmly believed I was incapable of cheating and would never ever cheat - until I did. Goes to show how easy it is anyone can slip up, no matter how determined they are to do the right thing.

To those of you who say you'll never cheat - always be damn careful, and never be too sure.
Shit you too eh?

GamesB2 said:
Unfortunately yes >.> I do not like that fact about myself.

To add more discussion value... I didn't get away with it. She hated me for months, we are still together now, she sometimes has difficulty trusting me but after seeing how much I hurt her I could never do that again and I hate the fact that I ever did.
I did something simallar. My wife was very angry with me and she still is but shes come to terms she can't trust me like she used to and i guess thats what sucks the most out of it. Not her not trusting me but the fact i know i did that to her.

To make matters worse it was with her best friend...yeah go me alright...asshole of the year award.
 

Mr.Mattress

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On the internet? Yes. In Real Life? I would hope not, but I've never had a real relationship.
 

DSK-

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I'm honest - perhaps a little too honest for my own good. The bottom line is if I did ever do something that could potentially jeopardise my relationship with someone I will admit to it everytime. It's not right and it isn't fair. I deserve to be dumped if I ever act that way.
 

Baldry

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Alas, no I would not cheat on my partner, sure I may think of other people but that's human nature.

But what led to my last relationship was the other person cheating on their boyfriend with me, I've never been proud about this or happy about how we did come to be, especially since they had been dating for two years and the guy was one of my best friends.
 

freetogoodhome

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I hope to God I would never cheat, I have felt what it is like before and it is possibly one of the worst things which can happen to someone.
 

Nuke_em_05

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No.

1. I am extremely staisfied with all aspects of my marriage as it stands. So I wouldn't in the first place.
2. It doesn't matter if she would never know, I would know: which would cause me untold grief. Especially if she didn't know. I would essentially be taking advantage of her affections given while unaware of my unfaithfulness.
3. Eventually, I would tell her. Which would void whatever supposed advantage her not knowing in the first place might have had, plus a combo multiplier for keeping it from her for X amount of time.

So...

No.

Then again, I'm the kind of man who values his relationship with his wife. It may not apply to everyone, but it does apply to me.

No.
 
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i dont really care about who's fucked who, so i wouldnt care if she cheated me either

i would only start to care if we'd established that we were exclusive and there was trust between us which would only happen in a rare instance anyway

plus, it's a great way to always have one over her no matter what she does (if you're a control freak for example)
 

Rakkana

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Nope I couldn't. And I don't care about other people so I don't have a clue why.
 

s0denone

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Yes.

Fairly easy question. Anyone can cheat on their significant other, given the right circumstances, I'd say.

Yes, yes and yes. I have, and I will. I'm human, what can you do? Also, should I ever get married, I'll try to not cheat on my wife, although I am excellent at excuses and lies, and have several mates who have my back, like I have theirs.
 

Tdc2182

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Sadly yes, but it takes alot for me to do it.

I was in a relationship that I thought wasn't going anywhere, and I almost commited whatever act that would have been committed with a girl that would have done whatever with me.

Eventually though, the relationship headed up the road and I realized that I would have made a really stupid mistake, so luckily it never happened.

The reason why I would have cheated was because I was miserable in that "relationship" because it was one of the worst I had been having. It was the typical, I asked her out, and then we would just say we were going out, without having any bond at all. Then there was a dance that we went to together and things turned around, but thats a different story...

I honestly never saw cheating as that bad an atrocity as what many of you make it out to be. It's purely lust, which should be controlled TBH, that has nothing to do with your feelings for the significant other. That doesnt mean I dont frown upon people who do it, but its not as big a commotion as everyone makes it out to be.
 

Xyliss

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I can and have done on a previous partner in the past, but I would never do it again.
 

DaftJok3r

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Its human nature. The people that say they would never ever ever cheat have never truly been tempted. I know that I would cheat. I never have, but I know that it could very well happen. Does that mean I want it to happen? Of course not, but im fully aware of what could happen.