BloatedGuppy said:
*snipped*
That kind of combativeness is certainly not limited to The Escapist forums, of course, it's an internet wide phenomenon. Outrage culture demands constant warfare. There must be an "us" and a "them", and each side pollinates the other with endless entreaties to further conflict, so that the ol' dopamine will keep flowing. There will always be some fresh atrocity uncovered on social media that must be poured over and dissected, examined for how terrible it exposes "them" as being, and how vindicated "we" are in turn.
I sometimes wonder if this is a phenomena induced by the internet of merely magnified.
The whole 'monkeysphere' theory, while not directly engaging this issue, does seem to lend itself to the conclusion that humans have been hardwired to easily slide into the 'them and us' mindset.
Not to say it's something unavoidable.
More that we can overcome this tendency, but it's just so easy to slip into this mindset without realizing.
Especially when it offers the comforting assurance provided by the agreement and companionship of the 'us'.
As to the Escapist in general.
I find it mostly civil, but then I don't often dip into the two subforums mentioned.
Yes, I do see some posts I'd consider uncivil, but then that's based on my subjective level.
I can't presume it's the same for all and, as we all know, there are some things you'll say to and read from your friends that would be damned impolite from a stranger.
Even if it looks a little uncivil to me on the outside, it may be an acceptable level of banter or argument between the two involved.
The internet at large seems to be more civil than I remember it being back when I started with it, but again that might be either a hardening of myself towards such things, the increased presence of moderated environments or (least likely) that it's actually more civil.