I guess it's a case of the decision being understandable, but not justifiable.
While I'm definitely not advocating the prevention of kids getting the implant, you sort of have to see it from the point of view from the parent (who is invariably deaf him/herself) but has no possibility of getting the implant themselves. This is tremendously selfish, I know, but a great part of it comes from a fear that their child will, in some way, grow to resent them for their disability, as it becomes, all of whom concerned will be painfully aware of this, as this would extend to the child's ostensibly 'normal' friends to the parents' circle of deaf friends. A child who would otherwise be deaf, interacting as a normal youngster would, is more than enough to potentially drive a massive wedge between parent and child because the expectations of the deaf and the hearing, whether of each other or not, are so fundamentally different that basic co-existence can become very problematic very quickly.
There is a great fear in the parent that he/she/they, upon the child's acclimatisation to hearing, cease to be capable of parenting. Spoken words have a certain strength to them, that signing cannot match. Thus, there are two possible outcomes: the child is driven apart from his/her peers because he/she maintains the habits and mannerisms of the deaf so that a rift does not open with the parents; the child is driven apart from his/her parents in an effort to be 'normal' and co-exist with hearing children.
There is a third that is a happy compromise between them, but the setting must be among others who have had the implant, so they can choose to make the change from deaf to hearing however quickly or however slowly they choose, never losing sight of either, because let's not forget that hearing, even after so short a period of time as a few years never having experienced it (though it hardly matters since that has been one's entire life), can be strange, frightening, exhilirating but above all unknown. Children will take to that in different ways, such is their wont, some will take to it gladly, easily, reluctantly and some will wish they'd never done it (at least as an immediate consequence and it would take some time to get used to).
So, it is very contextually sensitive as to whether it is suitable for a child to have a cochlear implant, not so much on the restoration of all his/her senses, but his/her capability to accept the physical difference between them and their parents, and reconciling it with the world around them without forgetting that while they can hear, deafness remains a massive part of their life.
chadachada123 said:
Barring this, why the FUCK are they trying to speak for the average deaf person, let alone EVERY deaf person? Were I a deaf person, I would permanently resent my parents if they forced me to stay deaf for life when I could alternately be somewhat normal (while still presumably learning sign language to speak to deaf people, making me twice as adapted as them).
Oh I agree, but there are several different types of deaf people (i.e. how they became deaf), and while I'd echo such sentiment, remember that we speak as people who can hear perfectly (or close enough to it) well. For those born deaf, they know nothing else and since they live on, they see nothing wrong with it until that moment when they first experience it (in the majority of cases, at least). So were they to live out their lives deaf, they wouldn't think much of it.