I've had a major run in with conformity. I had a beard and the school made me shave it off. I do not like conformity but I suppose it has a time and place
Oh you're definitely right about this. Like there's the casual clothing majority and then the minority who try to set themselves apart......by ALL wearing theseTonyCapa said:Now looking at anyone under the age of 20 I've realized that there only two real looks for people.
PFFFFTH- BWAHAHAHAHA!TonyCapa said:I don't like conformity, mainly because it takes away self expression and replaces it with 92% of people looking EXACTLY THE SAME. Now looking at anyone under the age of 20 I've realized that there only two real looks for people. One is a hip-hop look that normally consists of unusally baggy pants and hoodies and the metal-head look which is usually a band T-shirt, jeans, usually something with leather and odd accessories like studded belts and wrist bands. Now there are certain things that that vary from these styles but they're just branches of it. Like Goth and Emo are similar to metalhead and jocks usually look like the hip-hop group. There are only two types of people that don't fit in some way to these two. Nerd (no offense to any out there) and people who just make their own styles. Nerds aren't conformists because most are socially inept except to those they relate to in their interests. (To make it clear when I say "Nerd" I mean the definiton given in The Big Picture as somebody who has fanatical devotion to something that ultimately doesn't matter.)To look at the other side of this, I have a friend who wears a top hat, a monacle, a pocket watch and a trench coat. He made his own style. Which is admirable. He chose not to bend to conformity of others. I also realise that a lot of these people that do conform are usually in the mind set of other people they conform with, as to say they think very much alike. Now I'm slightly guilty of this myself. I'm the standard metalhead who wears studded belts and band T-shirts and I think what most of them believe as well, but that's because I already did and not because I want to fit in.
All that to say, do you consider yourself a conformist and do you think conformity is bad?
exactlyRatRace123 said:I'm so nonconformist I don't conform with whatever you conform with, wait so that means that I conform, but if I'm trying to be nonconformist I can't conform, but there are many other nonconformists out there, so I'm conforming with them, but if I tried to be nonconformist with them I would need to conform with the conformists which means that to conform to them I would need to *HEAD EXPLODES*
No one is truly nonconformist, if you live in a society at all, your conforming with someone, probably many people.
Everything you've listed under 'interests' on your profile? Conformity.Mechsoap said:Strangely enough yesterday in school everyone was trying to make me wear jeans instead of cargo pants, and polo shirts instead of nerdy t-shirts, and cut my hair (all these things i would never do, 1: baggy cargo pants are awesome 2: i like those t-shirts and really hate their clothing style 3: i love my hair).
they where all day saying i looked weird (been dressing like this for years now) and i should look like them, when i asked why they responded ''to be normal''.
afterwards i said they could go f*** themselves and enjoy their pop-culture style.
So i wouldn't say im a conformist at all.
Well thank you very much, i was more referring to how my class mates see me.Woodsey said:Everything you've listed under 'interests' on your profile? Conformity.Mechsoap said:Strangely enough yesterday in school everyone was trying to make me wear jeans instead of cargo pants, and polo shirts instead of nerdy t-shirts, and cut my hair (all these things i would never do, 1: baggy cargo pants are awesome 2: i like those t-shirts and really hate their clothing style 3: i love my hair).
they where all day saying i looked weird (been dressing like this for years now) and i should look like them, when i asked why they responded ''to be normal''.
afterwards i said they could go f*** themselves and enjoy their pop-culture style.
So i wouldn't say im a conformist at all.