Poll: Did i have the right to get mad?

[Once a Human]

Well you seem to be in an awkward position anyway and finding out she's already scoping/nailing other dudes so soon after the relationship is over is quite frustrating so I can understand why you're upset.

That being said I have one I thing I have to say on a personal level:

I have no respect for people who give in to their base animal instincts of violence as a retaliatory action. Primitive grunts and groans are fine if they're coital, but as far as problem-solving tools they fall into the social pit of ineptitude and failure.

Throw her ass out quickly and move on with your life.

 

[DMonkey]

I clicked "Yes" simply because breaking up after a long term relationship and still living with the person? Doubt there is any rational way of dealing with that...

Was it in your right? I don't know, nobody knows, there's not a guideline for these types of things... if it were me I would toss the ungrateful freeloader out there door, but then again, I'm kind of a jerk...

Really, don't sweat it... keep a calender nearby with X's going through the days, circled around the date the the lease is up (turn it into a smilie for added effect)...

 

[Absimilliard]

The plate might be a bit much, but yeah, I think you had the right to be angry. Living together after a breakup is bound to be awkward, but one should expect a minimum of respect. Flirting when you'd both decided not to that for a while, and then talking smack about you to some guy on the internet? Not really what I call respectful.

 

[Zersy]

Damn... I hate relationship trouble...

 

[Pekkipang]

Damn... I hate relationship trouble...

Yeah its great! =P

 

[Plurralbles]

Girls will always talk shit about their ex. And guys will do likewise.

She could show alittle bit more class but.. hey, you're done, you don't have to bother about how much or little class she has anymore.

 

[Joa_Belgium]

You did have the right to get mad. If I were in your shoes, I'd even try to speed up the entire process so she would be out of my life sooner.

Breaking up is one thing. But to lack in showing some decency and respect for another person is just asking for it.

I hope you can get it over with sooner than expected. What a *****.

 

[Melancholy_Ocelot]

Break Lease...I did when I was in the same situation. Best decision ever. Also, DBan Boot and Nuke her computer, but not before gathering black mail. It was a quick and fluid gear change from loving gf to psycho *****. That black mail (pictures) saved me a lot of trouble.

 

[BKtheKITTY]

Unless you can condense four years of goings on into a slim paragraph, I doubt any of us know whether you truly had the right to get cross. From what you say, yes, yes you did, but I suppose only you will ever know for sure. Watch out for projectiles though, if you hit her, she's a martyr. No one needs that.

 

[Jodah]

For her having a relationship after you broke up - no
For her talking shit about you to her new guy - yes

 

[silver wolf009]

Youve broken up for all intents and purposes, let it go.

 

[DukeBishop]

Definitely need BonSaik here

 

[bluepilot]

Soundslike you are better off without her to be honest

Stop getting angry and thank your lucky stars that she is someone else`s problem now

I am not trying to be disrespectful, but from what I have read about only you cooking and cleaning, she not chipping in her fair share, her current behaviour...she is probably just acting you

If it makes you so angry maybe you should just move out. I think you were right to be angry but you should not have let her get to you like that.

 

[AnonymouZero]

neutral ur both insane.

i voted yes, but agree with this.

though if i lived with the chick and she was hitting on other people IN FRONT OF ME, i would prolly throw... something... like a pillow, plates are a mess to clean up xD

 

[Typhusoid]

I think that while your anger was certainly understandable, your relationship was over and she has the right to do whatever she wants.

 

[CloakedOne]

If she's getting ready to move on and so are you, there is nothing wrong with her sparing her feelings and making a transition for the inevitable. I think she could have gone about it a different way, but I believe you're overreacting.