Poll: Did I really deserve this?!

[TheRundownRabbit]

So I was talking with a girl. That day I felt like I was being mean simply because I didnt talk to her that day so i decided to apologize to her (just in case she was upset). Then she replied with "Your just looking for sympathy!" (she probably said it because I explained myself, this is actually the reason why I wouldnt talk to anyone, because I learned something that made me feel negative emotions) and she got all pissed.........I thought "OK what the fuck just happened?".
Did I deserve that?

 

[Jedamethis]

Well, I wouldn't say she's a *****, but you're not at fault.

 

[Gaderael]

What she said made no sense.

 

[Dango]

She's definitely not a ***** but that is still a bit odd...

 

[Woodsey]

What she said didn't make sense, but I'd have understood it more if she called you an attention seeker.

Why apologise to someone just in case they might be a little upset just because you didn't speak to them yet that day?

 

[Quaxar]

So according to her you're apologizing because you are looking for sympathy? Does that even make sense?
I personally wouldn't even call it mean to not talk to a person because you don't want to...

 

[captainwillies]

So I was talking with a girl. That day I felt like I was being mean simply because I didnt talk to her that day so i decided to apologize to her (just in case she was upset). Then she replied with "Your just looking for sympathy!" and she got all pissed.........I thought "OK what the fuck just happened?".
Did I deserve that?

obviously you just waited to long and her anger scale went above the line were if you take to long she just gets angrier no matter what you do. So in short pay attention or just buy her a $5 rose from the market and a packet of subway cookies.

 

[tomtom94]

Without reading: Naturally.
With reading: Ugh, people are idiots.
Give her a few days to cool off then try talking to her again.

 

[Nouw]

I have no idea what you're talking about, I have read it three times and it makes no sense...
I have pieced it together and I have the conclusion that she makes no sense at all and that she is not a *****, simply an idiot.

 

[Kenni-chan]

This.Is.Why.I.Hate.Other.Girls

 

[Gralian]

I have no idea what you're talking about, I have read it three times and it makes no sense...
I have pieced it together and I have the conclusion that she makes no sense at all and that she is not a *****, simply an idiot.

Pretty much this, i didn't understand your post at all. You were "talking with a girl" - what, is she a friend? A random person? If so, why does this matter? Why did you "explain yourself"? What do you mean by "found out something that made you feel negative emotions"? Sounds like very vague, very broken English to me. If you started whining to her and acted like you were only speaking to her because you were looking for some sort of comfort when you had otherwise blatantly ignored her to start with, then yeah, i'd say she was pretty much justified. Not everyone can be bothered to deal with other people's feelings or act like some sort of carebear to provide a sympathetic ear - some people just don't care and don't want to hear it.

 

[ItsAChiaotzu]

After reading your post, I was like "What the fuck just happened?"

Did I deserve that?

 

[Hisshiss]

You felt bad for randomly not talking to her for one day, apologized in passing, and she gave you shit far trying to milk sympathy? I could be wrong but it seems like shes just being uptight =\. Then again I don't know either of you so it may have been more complicated, either way don't let it get to you, people can have those kinds of communication clashes all the time for no real reason.

 

[BlueberryMUNCH]

none of the above...
...idk what to say really, i wouldnt call her a ***** but thats a bit lame to get all tetchy over it. pah. girls sometimes HONESSSTTLLLYYY.

 

[maddawg IAJI]

In that light, it's probably pretty difficult to see her way of seeing it. Ya, it does sound mean, but we're not seeing it from the way she saw it, so in that way, I'm just gonna abstain from judgement. There has to be a reason after all.

 

[Kortney]

She's probably just having a bad day.

 

[Krantos]

I would probably chalk this up to not hearing the whole story, because we're hearing it from you without hearing her side.

Though, if I had to venture a guess, I'd say you probably missed some social clues in there somewhere.

Or she's an emotionally insecure teenage girl who likes to get attention by acting peevish.