P0RTAL said:
As a girl I originally just rolled my eyes when I heard this, but then i recalled back when I still rode the schoolbus and it really did seem that every conversation always looped back to sex or rape. The way I think of it, a person would have to be concentrating really hard on sex to actually think of it that often in a day but then again, I'm not a guy. What do you think about this?
There are two kinds of guys who think about sex all the time: Those who haven't had any yet, and those who have lots of it all the time with many different people.
-Me and my friend are virgins. Last night we were hanging out, and at some point during the night we eventually, inevitably, started running through names of female anime characters, under the question "Would you do her?" And most of the time we'd answer "yes".
-On the other end of the spectrum, my other friend is a real player who used to go to wild parties all the time and also got laid all the time. And thus that's what he talks about. I, on the other hand, play Halo all the time. So that's something else I talk about a lot.
-But then I have yet another friend who's in a normal relationship with a girl he loves a lot, and he's never ever talked about sex before, except when I asked him if they'd "done it", which they do occasionally.
Here's the reasoning behind all of this. Whatever we want the most is what's in our heads. A lot of men want sex the most, either because they don't get enough, or don't get any, so that's what's in our heads, and that's what we talk about. On the other hand, when somebody does something all the time, even if they don't necessarily want it the most, that's what's going to be in their heads because of the repetition and the experience. That's why my second friend talks about sex, and I talk about Halo. Halo is second-nature to me, sex is second-nature to him. Lastly, those who have experienced sex several times, or are in a relationship and have sex regularly, are aware that sex is just a little bit over-hyped, and not worth getting worked up over. And those are the guys who don't talk about it much at all.