manythings said:
Neuromaster said:
manythings said:
Merkavar said:
100k seems to be an amount that will let you be comfortable but not excessively rich.
i dont think money changes you, it just allows you to be who you really are.
Science says otherwise. The current thinking is as your wage increases you enter into different societal groups based on your income (i.e. richer areas of cities or whatever) and become exposed to their habits. The part of you that wants to fit it wants the things they have, or better just to present dominance over them, so that you can increase your standing.
The more money you get the more retarded bullshit you'll piss it away on just to show how awesome you are.
Not 100% sure I know the research you're referring to. In fact, some clever guys over at Princeton came out with an interesting paper last September [http://science.slashdot.org/story/10/09/07/1519221/Researchers-Say-Happiness-Costs-75k] that pretty much implies people are increasingly
un-happy as their yearly wage drops further and further below 75k, but above that there's no measurable difference. Kinda like a plateau rising up to 75k and then pretty much levelling off.
Being economically secure isn't the same as being happy because you are rich. I think dickens once said "A man who earns 20 pounds every year with a annual costs of one shilling less is in heaven, a man with one shilling more is in hell".
Nigerians are happier than americans: http://ns.umich.edu/htdocs/releases/story.php?id=6629
As standard of life increase in China happiness is decreasing: http://www.spring.org.uk/2008/04/why-chinese-are-getting-richer-but-not.php
Increasing your standard of life depresses you: http://query.nytimes.com/gst/fullpage.html?sec=health&res=9E0DEFD61538F934A3575AC0A9659C8B63
Incredibly rich people consider salary caps evil: http://www.nytimes.com/2009/02/06/nyregion/06pay.html?_r=2
Add to this the way people will spend money on vanity things a la "Keeping up with the Joneses".
Are you saying that having a bit more money will make you sadder? Or rich people have problems being happy?
Now, don't get me wrong, I realize that having lots of money doesn't bring lasting happiness. But anyone who has had to worry about paying bills or getting gas in their car can tell you that financial security does make someone happy, especially when they've been unstable for years. My dad only recently got a good-paying job, and he's happier than he's been in years. Today was his first paycheck, I might add.
What I'm saying is that having extra money can't bring lasting happiness, but if a person handles it right then it can bring a sort of satisfying financial contentedness that's, sadly, quite rare in this world.
The rich are often unhappy because they constantly work toward getting more money, it's the only thing they care about yet it doesn't ever make them any happier anymore. So they work and work and work and never pay attention to something that might make them more joyous (a wife, maybe, or companionship of some sort, a kid, some friends, etc.)
Also, I'm not saying that it's fair for sports players to earn millions per year, but many of you need to remember that most of them only play for a few years. They earn a lifetime's salary in a very short amount of time, and then usually quit. Remember that before you go slighting them again.