Awesome for what came before the vomit. ^^ What I can remember of it anyway.Mackheath said:
And yes, actually. I'm quite the North American mutt, but there's a fairly think Scottish genetic legacy in there.
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And yes, actually. I'm quite the North American mutt, but there's a fairly think Scottish genetic legacy in there.
You'll get ladies as long as you're a real nice guy, not one of those basement dwelling depressed kids who has never talked to a girl for more than help on an assignment then claims to be a "nice guy" without him even trying. It just might take a little longer, I had a girlfriend from 7th to 9th grade and haven't been closer to a girl since :/ a few have been "interested" but no engagement was met. (btw i'm 19 now to give you some context on how long its been and junk.)
And: http://www.heartless-bitches.com/rants/niceguys/ng.shtml. Seriously, if you see yourself as a "nice guy who constantly gets passed over for jerks" this website is your friend. It will help you understand what you are doing wrong and how to fix that.
When did nice guys ever have a chance
It's such an annoying Idiom in my opinion because it suggests that basic levels of politeness is what is being addressed not simpering weaklings too afraid of their own feelings.
It's such an annoying Idiom in my opinion because it suggests that basic levels of politeness is what is being addressed not simpering weaklings too afraid of their own feelings.
For a good, long while I've been one of the nice guys, one of those spineless lovers. I don't really know what else I can say about it other than trying for three years, never had the mental strength to actually go up do that one girl and say it. Heck, last year I had two girls I'd been crushing on, my best friends - then I left for a bit. Six months away from them and practically no contact as I chased after a different girl, though this time I actually managed to talk to her about it.
Lasted a couple of weeks, then the whole thing went down in flames. I'm glad for that, though, because what happened with her got me back together with my old friends. And through that contact I fell for one of them again, and they fell back in love with me and it rolled from there.
It's about two months old now, but we've gotten far. A few weeks ago we went on our first "date" or "night out," and it's still going.
Point is, though ... I was one of those nice, backbone-lacking guys. Maybe my problem was, in the end, overcomeable, but if there's any way for you to break through that then you should. At the end of last year I told myself "Hey, this year? I'm going to tell people what I think." And, while some of you might not believe in that kind of thing, it's actually gotten me places.
EDIT: As for the question that's actually being asked here ... she likes me as being who I am. Yeah, probably because I have a way with words and know what she likes, but also because I'm sincere. For the longest time now I've wanted to be either a teacher (Important stuff right there) or a nurse (Helping people who can't help themselves?), and right now I'm actually focusing on Nursing. All I want to do is help, she understands that. She is the kind of girl who, I guess, is an "acquired taste" - you get to appreciate their appearance a bit more when you're finally together with them (But, arguably, that with everyone). But she's also the kind of mature girl, the kind of person that everyone likes because she's sensible and approachable.
Heck, on a related note, one of my "mates" (He used to hang around with me for ages, god knows why) is a total ass towards girls, and people in general, and I've been genuinely more successful in life than he has, relationships included.
Lasted a couple of weeks, then the whole thing went down in flames. I'm glad for that, though, because what happened with her got me back together with my old friends. And through that contact I fell for one of them again, and they fell back in love with me and it rolled from there.
It's about two months old now, but we've gotten far. A few weeks ago we went on our first "date" or "night out," and it's still going.
Point is, though ... I was one of those nice, backbone-lacking guys. Maybe my problem was, in the end, overcomeable, but if there's any way for you to break through that then you should. At the end of last year I told myself "Hey, this year? I'm going to tell people what I think." And, while some of you might not believe in that kind of thing, it's actually gotten me places.
EDIT: As for the question that's actually being asked here ... she likes me as being who I am. Yeah, probably because I have a way with words and know what she likes, but also because I'm sincere. For the longest time now I've wanted to be either a teacher (Important stuff right there) or a nurse (Helping people who can't help themselves?), and right now I'm actually focusing on Nursing. All I want to do is help, she understands that. She is the kind of girl who, I guess, is an "acquired taste" - you get to appreciate their appearance a bit more when you're finally together with them (But, arguably, that with everyone). But she's also the kind of mature girl, the kind of person that everyone likes because she's sensible and approachable.
Heck, on a related note, one of my "mates" (He used to hang around with me for ages, god knows why) is a total ass towards girls, and people in general, and I've been genuinely more successful in life than he has, relationships included.
Just think of it this way.
Do you really want a girl stupid enough to go for the bad boy?
Don't change, please.
Do you really want a girl stupid enough to go for the bad boy?
Don't change, please.
ok stop crying out i will tell u the truth u dont have a chance u noe why jerks get womman and not u its obvious casue they interact with woman on an emotional basis not necesarly good emotions but to woman this is a breath of fresh air now pro tip u can improve ur chances with woman just stop being so fking submessive and feminine be a man and stop this pity feeling u want change intiate it u can get woman if u start comunicating with them with emotions good ones if u dont want to be a jerk and u will notice u get more attenion frm woman the truth is tht woman look at jerks cause they think they are confeident where acc its there nature tht makes them act like tht just be reallly confeident to give u feeling of iit repeat this sentence out loud i swear u will feel diffrent this is the quote "where i am concerned i am the coolest mother fuckeer on the planet " now this might not be true but the belf u put in this gives u confeidence which woman like i hope u get my point woman are after men who have less problems then they do i.e high status men who have a spine sorry for bad english cause i was there where u are mate best of luck with ur own change