Poll: Do you fake it?

[artanis_neravar]

To put it simply do you, or have you ever, faked an orgasm. Would you want your partner to fake an orgasm, or to tell you what you are doing wrong and how to improve?

 

[Radeonx]

No...I feel that trying to fake an orgasm as a man would be incredibly obvious and stupid.

 

[BlindMessiah94]

I faked it when I lost my virginity. It wasn't that enjoyable to be honest and it was really awkward and was going on forever so I just faked it to be done with it.

 

[Sudenak]

Meh, I've never seen the need to fake it. Generally speaking, if you're doing it wrong, I'm just enough of a ***** to point it out and fix the problem immediately. XD

 

[NinjaDeathSlap]

Never faked, never been faked on.

 

[Yosato]

I faked it when I lost my virginity. It wasn't that enjoyable to be honest and it was really awkward and was going on forever so I just faked it to be done with it.

Shamefully, I did the exact same thing. She was a virgin too and neither of us really knew what we were doing. She seemed in pain and I didn't wanna be pushy.

 

[emeraldrafael]

if i were a girl, i imagine it would be nice if he faked it just cause that;s a huge life altering decision.

but as a guy... no, I never tried to fake it. that would be rather interesting though, and a good story for her girlfriends about how i faked it with her.

... Honestly, I think faking it is just rude. Just tell the person its not working, and what they can do to make it work.

 

[artanis_neravar]

Meh, I've never seen the need to fake it. Generally speaking, if you're doing it wrong, I'm just enough of a ***** to point it out and fix the problem immediately. XD

That's how I would prefer it, better to be told you are doing something wrong then give the other persons friends something to laugh about

 

[SckizoBoy]

So many threads that would illicit responses referring to the same person...

OT: No, never faked, if anything (a cliche but) came too quickly when I lost my virginity. Round 2 was a different story... Anyway, never been faked on (that I'm aware of).

 

[Akytalusia]

not sure how a guy could fake it..........

 

[BlindMessiah94]

I faked it when I lost my virginity. It wasn't that enjoyable to be honest and it was really awkward and was going on forever so I just faked it to be done with it.

Shamefully, I did the exact same thing. She was a virgin too and neither of us really knew what we were doing. She seemed in pain and I didn't wanna be pushy.

No shame in it really. I don't see the point in doing something you're not enjoying. Besides, better to fake it and spare her some self esteem than say "You're terrible and this is awkward" and then walk away leaving her naked and hurt.

Granted my first girl wasn't exactly a virgin by any means. But I just wasn't really enjoying myself. I got more out of the foreplay and cuddling to be honest.

 

[Heathrow]

It's easy to fake as a guy, it's not like girls check the contents of your condom to be sure.

And to all the guys saying that they know their girlfriends don't fake, unless you actually share nerve endings with her, no, no you don't.

 

[AnkaraTheFallen]

Never had to fake it, and I know my girlfriend hasn't either.

 

[Souplex]

I'm almost completely silent during, so there's no clear indication if I have or not. It's nice.

 

[Scabadus]

not sure how a guy could fake it..........

Ehhh you'd be surprised... As a male I've never activly faked it, but I once did accidentally. Very awkward.

Not to go into too fine a detail but it was first thing in the morning, I gave up when she was done, she thought I was done too.

 

[Spade Lead]

but as a guy... no, I never tried to fake it. that would be rather interesting though, and a good story for her girlfriends about how i faked it with her.

... Honestly, I think faking it is just rude. Just tell the person its not working, and what they can do to make it work.

My favorite is when you put it in for the first time and they go "Oh God..." As long as they don't fake it (never happened yet), I am fine with anything else they want to say. Yes ladies, I take instruction well.

 

[Nimcha]

Never needed to, thankfully. In fact I was rather shocked that some girls feel the need to fake it in the first place... I never knew people actually did that until a few years ago.

 

[emeraldrafael]

but as a guy... no, I never tried to fake it. that would be rather interesting though, and a good story for her girlfriends about how i faked it with her.

... Honestly, I think faking it is just rude. Just tell the person its not working, and what they can do to make it work.

My favorite is when you put it in for the first time and they go "Oh God..." As long as they don't fake it (never happened yet), I am fine with anything else they want to say. Yes ladies, I take instruction well.

Yeah. I dont know why, but if the man likes you, odds are, as long as youre not a ***** about it, he'll take the advice to ake you feel better.

And it goes the same for men if you cant seem to get them to ladies.

 

[Pvt Dylan]

Luckily she didn't notice I was holding a shampoo bottle in my hand.
No and no.. It's a pretty strange concept though, is it just to make their partner feel better about their skill with their squishy parts?