that sounds like me exactly.crudus said:My mom bugs the fuck out of me. My dad leaves me alone. We only talk when there is something to be said. My dad and I spent five days in the house alone and said less than ten things to each other. It was great.
Well, my problem with my mom is she tries to force a relationship to happen rather than just letting it happen. Talking about random shit that I don't want to talk about discourages me from actually wanting to be around her. I went a year without talking to my dad once and we had a great time catching up. I have never gone more than a day without talking to my mom(rather, her talking to me). Do you know what there is to talk about when you are forced to have a conversation with someone that often? Spoiler alert: fucking nothing.gmaverick019 said:that sounds like me exactly.crudus said:My mom bugs the fuck out of me. My dad leaves me alone. We only talk when there is something to be said. My dad and I spent five days in the house alone and said less than ten things to each other. It was great.
my mom and i can't go one conversation without being the biggest smartasses on the planet to each other (i know i know i should be mature...but i refuse to let that woman beat me in an arguement, she is more stubborn and ignorant than anyone i have ever meant and thanks to her i am just as stubborn so i refuse to let her get her way) so seriously i talk to her as little as possible to just avoid the fuss all together, because she holds a grudge like its no ones business.
me and my dad get along good enough because we leave each other alone unless something needs to be said, which i respect him, and he respects me, so if we are in the house together generally the only things that get said throughout the day are either: chores, plans, food
which consists of oh...maybe 5 minutes? which is perfect to me. so we get along 100x better.
ok, that gave me a grin. good job.Aylaine said:'mommy why is my shirt poking out'
haha thats why i refuse to date clingy girls, it gets so damn boring if you try to force anything to work. my mom sometimes does that, i'll be watching tv or something, completely at peace and enjoying myself, when she will come and sit down, have something snippy to say about what im watching, then go into a interrogation of what im doing today and why i dont have a girlfriend and it just goes on...and on...one of these days i am going to shoop da woop the entire house to the ground.crudus said:snip.