Mandalore_15 said:
I just had a rather interesting encounter with my next-door neighbour. I was asking her if it was OK for me to get some building work done, as the house is terraced and it might inconvenience her. She said she had to call her landlord and ask if it was OK.
Well, she got back to me later on and said, at one point, "I called my landlord Chloe, and she said it's fine."
I was a little taken aback and, instinctively said, "Chloe? Oh, you mean your landlady," to which she replied "erm, that's a bit sexist don't you think?"
No. I don't think so.
Since when has it been "sexist" to use gender-nominative terms? The whole thing took be back to when Hollywood actresses campaigned to be called "actors" so they could feel "equal to the men." This is such rabid bullshit: the reason we have these distinctions is that they relay useful information, i.e. your gender. In the German language, every noun has a gender. You don't hear them going on about how it's sexist.
I will continue to call actresses actresses, landladies landladies, policewomen... well, you get the idea.
So Escapist, what's your opinion on the issue? Should we move towards gender neutral terms, or should overly sensitive women (and some men of course) just get over themselves?
EDIT - I posted this down below but I've moved it up here so everyone can see it straight off:
I wasn't really "correcting" her, as my statement wasn't really aimed at her. It was more just my inner-monologue coming out of my mouth involuntarily. It does that a lot!
How in the hell is that sexist? Not at all; particularly in this instance. For one thing, you can't have a female
lord, can you? My landlord is a woman so I call her my land
lady because... well, she's a lady, isn't she?
Anyroad, I quite like how you pointed out that, "The whole thing took be back to when Hollywood actresses campaigned to be called "actors" so they could feel "equal to the men."" which is something that we were discussing just this week actually about feminism. Now, there's nothing wrong to say, for example, "Head
teacher", "Police
officer" if one really must be politically correct if you can call it that, because those terms are all unisex. Well, that's how I see it. I also really liked your point of gender nouns in other languages. Some, like Finnish and Chinese, don't have any at all which is fair enough.
In short, if the term is unisex, then it's alright. However, like your own real life example, it is in no way at all sexist. She implied that her landowner was a man if you look at it one way. Now that I think about it, I would be quicker to call a female a landlord than a male a landlady, haha. Then again, that
is the right term for her; landlady. All that happened to you was that you assumed she had a male landowner (land
owner sounds a wee bit odd...), you realised and said to yourself, "Ah, she meant her landlady." because you thought she was a man at first. Erm. Does that make sense? I knew upon reading that line straight away that you were not, indeed, correcting her.

I don't think it was sexist at all. To be fair, I probably would have done the exact same!
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