ive had a pretty good share gay, lesbian, and bi friends over time. there were a few exceptions, but the vast majority of them have used words like gay, or even ******, whether jokingly or as a genuine insult. and while ****** is one of those words that i find offensive enough that i have to force myself to even type it, when someone else uses that f-word, so long as it isnt meant to be an insult to a gay person specifically for being gay, i usually dont get worked up about...espesially if the person speaking is gay.
but the word gay, yeah, totally use it from time to time, sometimes jokingly, sometimes as a genuine insult.
if its good enough for almost every homosexual person i have ever met in my entire life, its good enough for me...except sleeping with boys...thats just fucking gay, dude. XD
EDIT: wow, at first i got bored with flipping through everyone elses opinions, so i just posted my own and moved on. but eventually i came back and scrolled through. some of you are reeeeeally super-sensitive, even to the point of almost being hateful, about this.
well, im gonna try and nip any defamation in the bud: if any bleeding-heart wants to call ME a homophobe, among other mean words (that probably pale "gay" by comparison, lol), let me say i have actually experimented before, and may yet again if the opportunity presents itself and i feel so inclined, because while i love women, im still not entirely sure where i stand on dudes.
i dont know if that makes me straight, bi, or bicurious, but im fairly certain it shoots down any claim of me being homophobic before it ever makes it off the runway.
