Poll: Do you want to get married?

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I would like to one day, but I'm only 18 so I'm atleast a decade off getting there, so right now I'm just enjoying life...
 

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chimpzy said:
sumanoskae said:
figday said:
nope. at least not at the moment.
but if its her...


insta marriage!
My god...

Who is that, and what manner of angels made love to on rainclouds to move almighty god above to the tears of joy that inspired those magnificent TITS?.

You know what fuck it, if I met this woman, I'd marry the guy next door to bask in her glory!.

In all seriousness though, who's the hot chick?
That's Zhang Xin Yu, a popular Chinese model.

OT, I don't really have a desire to marry, but I'm not going to denounce the possibility. If the right woman comes along and she pesters me about it long enough, I'll probably cave soon or later.
chimpzy's got it right!
ever since Leah Dizon got pregnant, she's become my idol till now.
PS : she's all natural, yeah them tits too ^^ happy googling
 

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sumanoskae said:
I get that, but if it's not about the paper, then why bother with the paper. What else separates weddings from, say, a(Considerably less expensive) party you throw with your friends or family to celebrate you and your significant other making a decision about commitment or children?.

What about marriage makes it so emotionality significant as to make up for the potential divorce hassle when the two of you get tired of each other because your relationship has nowhere else to go, or you become attracted to someone else?
I think you've got it backwards, what people want is the big elaborate party showing their love to the world and the piece of paper comes with that.

Marriage (and the paper that comes with it) existed long before expensive weddings involving expensive food, drink, clothing, etc. The problem with the idea of having a "decision about commitment" parties is that if they were adopted by a significant number of people they would wind up being as expensive and elaborate as weddings anyway, you can't invite 100 people to a party about one of the most significant decisions in your life and feed them crackers and cheese whiz.

Plus I think you'll find that simply living with someone for long enough will create divorce hassles. Legal ownership of certain assets becomes blurred and similar legal routes are open to sue each other endlessly thanks to that. A lot of divorces wind up about children too, that's probably the worst part, and those lawsuits can happen regardless of whether you're married. Plus I don't think many people think about it when they get married, considering it's a bond for life thing going on.
 

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I do want to, but I'm not going to go looking for it. True companion ship will come, if it comes. If I spend all my emotion energy on trying everyone I meet, I could miss a real opportunity when it comes by.
 

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God no, marriage just ends up as an obligatory power relationship with no escape where both people are constantly in denial about a. How happy they are and b. what they'd rather be doing.

That or divorce.
 

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Hmm, probably some day for tax reasons, unless some better institution comes along to facilitate that. I don't see the romance of it though. My girlfriend even less so.
 

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Well since we can't... And "civil partnership" sounds like a load of stupid bollocks.

And how am I meant to get laid with a wedding ring on?
 

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I think whether or not we find marriage to be positive or negative we can all agree its something that needs A LOT of thought before jumping into it.
 

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Yes eventually, though I'd have to find girl that doesn't have standards on dating. She has to be attractive, because I really don't want to spend the rest of my life with someone I can't look at.

Thought this all won't happen until I can get a job, and get money so I can actually start a life.

Radeonx said:
Yup.
My fiancée and I are getting married after we both graduate this year.
Marriage at 110 years old, I wonder what that is like.
 

Rayne870

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Yup, been with my GF for 4 years, popped the question 3 years ago...still waiting on special circumstances to actually happen so we can have the wedding though.
 

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SenseOfTumour said:
Well, I've been quoted twice now, I was hoping my last part would show I'm not entirely against it, but I'll just state, I don't think it's for me, but I wouldn't wish to see it banned, I think it's great....for some people. I just don't see marriage as something I'd aim for, and I do wonder how many guys really desperately want to get married, it's always seemed a rather female led thing to me. (that's started another one off, lol)

I'm just saying, it's generally not the guy sorting out bridesmaids and reception seating plans and cake orders and the like :)
Well the planning of the marriage ceremony and all is a woman thing. But really, if you think about it, who is the one that proposes marriage? The guy does. Very very rarely have I ever heard of the girl proposing to the guy.

The thing with me is I want to have kids some day. My dad was 36 when I was born, he is now 61. I want to set it up to where when I have kids, when my kids get married, I'll still be around when they have grand kids. I shooting to have kids when I'm in my early to mid 30's, that is a little less than ten years away. Now, it is recommended that a couple wait a year or so through the marriage before they have kids, that way they have more time to acclimate themselves to being married, before they complicate things with kids. So I'm looking at a marriage goal anywhere from now to 32 years old(Edit: 7 years). So I have that long to find a nice girl and get married.

My brother and I are the only kids my dad and mom had. My brother is gay, so really I'm the only hope of a continuation of the family line on my end of the family. My cousins have already have several kids, so the line on their end is safe.

I know it is an old-fashioned mind set, but when it comes to these things, I am old-fashioned.
 

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Yep! I didn't think I would like to get married or even think about it but got engaged a while back. I guess all it takes is just the right guy to come along.
 

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Have a guess, or am I not well known enough to say that yet? *sad-face*

Yes I do, but as for my usually argumentative side on such topics Marriage ins't necessary or moral it's just an option. Personally I like the romance, commitment and the whole forever thing about it, but I'll not ***** at you if you don't.