Poll: Does this make me a creeper?( please read entire thing before voting)
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L2 talk to girls dude. Just ask her out. If she says no you're back at square one, if she says yes it's a win.
Yeah that's a bit creepy, just ignore her and find somebody else that you like, if she's a dick, then don't bother!
That's really just paranoid. People think it's creepy because they're paranoid as well. Our whole society is completely delusionally paranoid, and now we think everyone else is creepy because they avoid us.
If you want my advice, just get over it. Don't write notes, don't talk to her, don't do any of that crap. Go play video games or something. Maybe do your homework. Generally speaking, if you think someone might not like you, that's probably not a good sign for a potential relationship. Wait until you meet someone that actually likes you for that.
If you want my advice, just get over it. Don't write notes, don't talk to her, don't do any of that crap. Go play video games or something. Maybe do your homework. Generally speaking, if you think someone might not like you, that's probably not a good sign for a potential relationship. Wait until you meet someone that actually likes you for that.
Yea what you see on TV and movies hardly ever translates into the real world. Worst-case scenario, you find out she doesn't like you and you move on. Best-case, you find out you were wrong and become friends. Either way, life goes on. On top of that, talking to her face to face will help build up your confidence. You might not think so at first, but over time you'll find it easier to talk to them, rather than do the whole "note in locker" thing.Aylaine said:
Your fear of her is taking control. The more roundabout method you use to talk to her the more she going to think you actually are stupid, or a creep.
Rule number one with these kind of situations is this:
Remember above all else, she isn't putting nearly as much thought into what's going on than you are. You can dissect everything she says after each conversation. She has probably already forgotten and is worrying about something else.
Her friends aren't going anywhere, if you wanna get close to her, you need a way to cope with her friends. And avoiding them, is the worst possible way of coping with them.
Rule number one with these kind of situations is this:
Remember above all else, she isn't putting nearly as much thought into what's going on than you are. You can dissect everything she says after each conversation. She has probably already forgotten and is worrying about something else.
Her friends aren't going anywhere, if you wanna get close to her, you need a way to cope with her friends. And avoiding them, is the worst possible way of coping with them.
You're acting like a fucking incompetent paranoid dumbass creeper. Sorry, but it's true. Seriously, just grow a pair and talk to her. No need to ask her out straight away, just talk to her, try and end up on friendly terms with her, then work from there. If she doesn't like you at all then at least you'll have made an effort, without appearing like a stalker. If she does like you, even as a mere friend, then you have a much better chance that way than you do by seeming like a creepy stalker.
I'm the wrong person to ask - There was this girl I liked whom I didn't speak to for three whole years.
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Haah.
I think it may have brained my damage.
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I think it may have brained my damage.
This is one of those sad occasions where you either accept your 'different-ness' and move on or change yourself for the better. I grew up as a massive 'geek', socially awkward and outcast. Then I changed myself - and got some good friends and an awesome girlfriend.
The point is that 'being yourself' doesn't work if 'yourself' is flawed.
Do some sit-ups, go out to some pubs, and things should sort out.
The point is that 'being yourself' doesn't work if 'yourself' is flawed.
Do some sit-ups, go out to some pubs, and things should sort out.