That's a bad idea. Just grow some balls and talk to her.
Alternatively, don't. She's probably too good for you.
Alternatively, don't. She's probably too good for you.
Poll: Does this make me a creeper?( please read entire thing before voting)
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If there's one thing I'd say, it's that not being confident will get you nowhere. If she doesn't like you, then move on. You will eventually find someone that you will share a mutual affection with.
That's not being a creeper, it's wanting to get to know someone through unconventional means.
I managed to say something brilliant to a girl. I said ''I know what kind of laundry detergent you use. Purex 2x'' Needless to say she now thinks i stalk her, seeing as I also know where she lives...
I managed to say something brilliant to a girl. I said ''I know what kind of laundry detergent you use. Purex 2x'' Needless to say she now thinks i stalk her, seeing as I also know where she lives...
Oh, honey. The last thing you want to do is slip a 'mystery note' in her locker. This will probably just freak her out.
The whole "feel like an idiot around her" thing, I hear, is natural. You like her and, in my experience, squiggly human emotions tend to make us think that the people we have the squiggly human emotions for think we're asses.
Just talk to her. It really won't be so bad. Don't come on too strong, don't corner her when she's alone, just be nice.
The whole "feel like an idiot around her" thing, I hear, is natural. You like her and, in my experience, squiggly human emotions tend to make us think that the people we have the squiggly human emotions for think we're asses.
Just talk to her. It really won't be so bad. Don't come on too strong, don't corner her when she's alone, just be nice.
Ummmm, I think that is a little weird. Yes, the whole "Secret Admirier" thing tends to be romanticized in TV shows and movies, but in reality, it is met with mixed feelings.
I for one would be creeped out a bit if I found a note in my locker.
My Advice: Don't hide behind a note. Talk to her in person. The worse she can do is turn you away.
I for one would be creeped out a bit if I found a note in my locker.
My Advice: Don't hide behind a note. Talk to her in person. The worse she can do is turn you away.
I personally think things will go sour -really fast-. Though honestly, if you don't believe us, you might as well try and see for yourself. Seriously. I mean, nothing teaches better than personal experience.
The one thing I've learned about women in my lifetime (not saying this is fact, just based off experience) is that you -have- to socialize with them. Talking is the basis of flirting. Practice talking with some female friends first (if you don't have any, work to that stage first). Then after you gain confidence in that zone, start practicing with females outside your comfort zone. Only when you can maintain a conversation with the 'target', will I think you'll have any chance.
Like I said, however, this is based off my own personal experience. Feel free to disregard everything.
The one thing I've learned about women in my lifetime (not saying this is fact, just based off experience) is that you -have- to socialize with them. Talking is the basis of flirting. Practice talking with some female friends first (if you don't have any, work to that stage first). Then after you gain confidence in that zone, start practicing with females outside your comfort zone. Only when you can maintain a conversation with the 'target', will I think you'll have any chance.
Like I said, however, this is based off my own personal experience. Feel free to disregard everything.
I have to admit, my experience with this kind of thing is limited as I never have had a crush. I do know a couple things though: one, if she thinks you're an idiot, you aren't going to change that; so don't worry about it. If she doesn't think you're an idiot, you can definitely change that by acting like one, so don't do that.
Most of all, remember this: if she doesn't like you, there will be others. There are always others. Don't get hung up on rejection, and you will find someone.
Most of all, remember this: if she doesn't like you, there will be others. There are always others. Don't get hung up on rejection, and you will find someone.
This is called 'Stalking'. It can lead to other fun activities, such as 'macing', 'Court Dates', 'Jail Time', and my all-time favorite, 'Restraining order'! Not only would these activities be detrimental to any friendship you may wish to have with said lass, they also make future friendships with lasses somewhat more difficult.
Oh, I know one of them. This group of three girls. I went out with one of them, but now we're just friends. I'm good friends with another.
And then there's number three.
Like you said, there's this aura. Without her explicitly saying anything, I just know she hates me. And it sucks, yeah.
OT: As I don't know what exactly a creeper is, I won't vote. But I will say that if she's just like you've described her, I doubt she'll go along with the whole letter thing.
And then there's number three.
Like you said, there's this aura. Without her explicitly saying anything, I just know she hates me. And it sucks, yeah.
OT: As I don't know what exactly a creeper is, I won't vote. But I will say that if she's just like you've described her, I doubt she'll go along with the whole letter thing.
That kind of thing was romantic 300 years ago. In todays society, that type of thing would more likely get you a restraining order than a relationship. Just talk to her. Don't start out flirting or anything like that. A simple "Hello, hows your day" should sufficient
i have an Idea how about instead of using some secret notes you either just talk to her or if u don't want to be face to face or when her friends are around. social network her i'm sure she has msn or facebook or something. or you could text her this whole locker thing no good man