Not at all.
When I turned 12 I quite literally became a complete bastard. I stole from my parents, I started drinking and smoking and got into fights whenever possible.
I joined the army at 16 to try and sort my life out but it made me more violent. I was still drinking, constantly in bar fights. When I came home on leave i'd beat people for no reason whatsoever (no, not small people i'd look for people that would have made it a fight ... I liked to fight not bully).
I treat my women like shit. Basically used them as sex dolls. I didn't want a relationship, I had no emotional connection to the women I just wanted sex.
8 years ago on 23rd I met the lass i'm now married to. At first I thought it would be the same old "ooh look, new sex" kind of things but for some reason things changed. I got attached emotionally to her. I fell in love.
Since then I calmed right down, stopped with the violence (except when it was needed ... I was still in the army). We had kids which helped calm me down. I cut right down on the drinking. Now only drink once every few weeks when me and some friends meet up to catch up and watc a bit of football.
I have a decent job, loving wife and kids, a nice house and a decent income.
So for some 11-12 years of being an absolute arsehole and I ended up with everything I could ever wish for.