Still serving. 7 years down, 15 to go.
Been to both sandboxes a couple times, and will probably be going back at some point in the near future.
While I can understand some of the responses, others remain unfathomable, however your opinion is your opinion, and I'll leave it at that.
For those thinking of joining that are getting upset by some of the comments, my personal experience is that 9/10 times, if someone knows you're a serviceman/woman, they'll always ask how many people you've killed, never how many you've saved.
Yes, it is 'hard' having to deal with the apparent 'accusations' when you've been out on the frontlines for any amount of time (my longest deployment has been just short of 12 months, due to lack of cycling units) and have returned to your home, the place and people you have been fighting for (despite comments of "hurr, all the terrorists are fake, it was a war for oil") only to have such thinly veiled hatred thrust towards you from every direction, but you will get used to it.
The reason why so many armed forces personnel are 'breaking up' and/or leaving their chosen profession is not because of the job they do, but because of the distinct lack of thanks they get from people they do it for.
Imagine working in a store, getting paid just over minimum wage, where every day you walk around potentially stepping on a spilt tub of drawing pins, or having a can of deodorant explode next to you every minute of every day. At night a shelf might fall on you while you sleep, when you can get some. Throughout all of this, you have the customers screaming at you. Some you are trying to help, some you are trying to protect, and some you are checking to see if they are carrying a screwdriver to loosen that shelf for the upcoming night.
Would you honestly stay in that job for more than 5 minutes?
Would you tell your friends that it was an awesome job?
No?
Then how about, if it wasn't for some people doing that job, the store would collapse, taking all the customers with it, because somewhere there is an identical store, with a person who worked for those 5 minutes more?
Sorry it turned into a veritable wall o' text, but I'm trying to put things into a little perspective, while giving a little bit of info on what we actually do.
And we need to do it, because as much as people want to, we cannot survive in a pacifist society.
There has been, and will always be, competition for the limited resources, and even if you magically got rid of all the knives and guns, people would still use rocks.