end_boss said:
I do not wish to offend people but I do wish to defend the language. Retarded just means slowed and has no inherent offensive value in it's proper context. Nobody would be offended if I said something is fire retardant.
It is different and is offensive. Simply googling it will provide links, here are a few:
http://www.r-word.org/r-word-why-pledge.aspx
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/29981699/ns/us_news-life/ (if Dr Cox is behind it, you know it makes sense!)
http://www.newser.com/story/98255/nj-bans-the-word-retarded.html (not the only state to do so I believe!)
http://www.mencap.org.uk/news.asp?id=14931
Although some states still use the term, in the UK it is not used in any official manner.
On topic none of them.