Poll: Giving up gaming because you're old

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The Abhorrent

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One shouldn't quit gaming because they're "too old" for it, though there are a couple things which could easily impact one's decision to take an interest in other hobbies/activities/whatever and stop playing games (though preferably not completely so).

Lack of time
Easily the most valid reason to curb one's interest in gaming, because it can be a very time-consuming hobby; hell, MMOs are built specifically to take advantage of this. Most teens don't realize just how time their responsibilities will be until it hits them full force. The standard 40-hour work week might not sound like much, but it's easy to go over that arbitrary limit; while it often comes with overtime pay, there's a pretty good chance any given person will be putting in more than that. With increasing responsibility, the probability for one to go over that benchmark increases as well; as they say, things have to get done. Just as an example, I easily put in 60+ hours a week. And we haven't even touched things like maintaining your home or spending time with family, which is just more time. Spending time playing games seems far less important when you have other priorities.

Moving outside the target demographic
The closest thing to the "too old" sentiment, but it's fairly obvious that people's tastes will change as they get older. Some of the things you enjoyed in your youth can seem far too idiotic or annoying (usually labeled as "immature", but I'm trying to avoid any misnomers) to you when you're older. This is usually the case with trendy or popular games, those which are trying to capitalize on the teen audience. Games which aim to target multiple age groups and don't rely various gimmicks aren't subject to this, but seem to becoming a bit rarer in the current era of gaming.
 

Smeggs

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Jason Rayes said:
Only if there was an ultimatum between something else I felt was hugely more important than me playing games ever again.

Or, y'know, if I become so senile that I begin spouting off about a war I never fought in, when my memories of Halo and CoD begin to meld with my memories of reality.

"AND D'ERE WE WERE, SOAP, THE CHIEF AND ME, ON OUR LAST MISSION TO STOP MAKAROV FROM BLOWING UP DE EARTH WITH A GIANT RING-SHAPED SPACE STATION!"

"Grandpa, that never happened."

"SHADDUP, BILLY! NOW, WHERE WAS I...OH RIGHT! SO ME AND MARIO WERE TRYING TO GET ALL THE POKEBALLS BACK FROM THE EVIL WHESKER, OR ELSE THE WORLD WOULD BE BLOWN UP AND TURNED INTO A NEW STAR..."
 

Snowblindblitz

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Gaming is a hobby. Plenty of older people have hobbies based on what they enjoy.

My grandparents enjoyed westerns, sewing, and collecting and watching Steven Segal movies.
My other grandma had a hand-me down watch that you could play tetris on, and loves Nintendo and Black Sabbath.


People like what they like. I'm not telling my mom she is too old to watch television.
 

cathou

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I'm 33, I have a house, full time job, pregnant wife, social life and friends, so of course my gaming habits have change over the years, but I still manage to play 5 to 15 hours per week, and I don't intend to stop playing.

In fact I often think that when we will all be 60-70, and put in retirement house, we will be enough gamers there to do massive LAN party there !
 

remnant_phoenix

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I think it's more a case of not having time rather than a magic switch.

If you have a full time job, a house to maintain, a spouse, three kids and any kind of social life it's going to take a serious effort to make time for video games.
I can confirm this.

As a 27-year-old family man, I play a lot less video games now than I did when I was in high school or college, and it takes serious, intentional effort to get through my never-ending backlog.

EDIT: That being said, I have no intention of giving up video games altogether unless my eyes or hands stop working.
 

SadisticFire

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Gamin' is supposed to be everyone. And I can't imagine not playing games in my old age, because it would be a rather lonely existence if I'm not doin' games. It does seem to be just a "too busy to play games" thing. My father plays tons game, n' he's fifty. Nuffin' wrong with that.
 

Chemical Alia

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I'm 30 and I still find time for games and stuff. The only thing I foresee being an issue is my much-operated-on wrist injury that's already gotten to the point where trying to use a controller to aim is painful after a few minutes, as is using a mouse without a splint on. Thought games and art are pretty much my livelihood, so I'll be doing everything I can to ensure that's not an issue in the future. Kinda important.
 

Dr. Doomsduck

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I don't know, I'm 23 now and while I can still definitely enjoy a good game and even get completely sucked in by one, the quantity of games that I actually enjoy have gotten less.

Right now, I only enjoy Skyrim, Mass Effect, Fallout 3/vegas, pokémon heartgold(I know, I know) and Amnesia for a bit. There's a pattern, obviously, the first four allow you to have a lot of variety when it comes to building your character and have, to a more or lesser extent freedom to where you want to go.

Maybe I've just gotten more picky over time...
 

Icehearted

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Jason Rayes said:
I recently had an argument with a friend where I completely disagreed with his opinion. He was convinced that after a certain point you have to give up video games, as he put it "When you get old a switch goes off in your head and you just change, you want to do gardening and lawn bowls and things like that. Trust me, you won't want it to happen but it will happen". Apart from thinking he was an idiot, my counter argument was as follows. There was no magic switch that went off in their heads
Your reply was sufficient. Doctors, psychiatrists, engineers, wives, fathers, grandparents, video games have something to offer everyone. My mother, opposed to games for most of my life, now in her 60s, is loving the hell out of them (one of her favorites is The Longest Journey). There is not more a switch for this than there is a switch to tell us it's labor day.

Your friend sounds immature, no offense.
 

Gennadios

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I'm already on my way out, but it has more to do with my tastes changing over the years while game writing and concepts have kind of stagnated, to put it pleaseantly since the 2000's. Most of my gaming nowadays is indie sandbox/procedurally generated style games. Just can't stand the infantile writing and devs calling their games "mature" just because there are titties and f-bombs floating around everywhere.
 

JohnnyDelRay

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Real life does get a bit heavy at times, and though I find myself giving less and less time for gaming, it's still a priority among fitness, reading, mountain biking, music, and other hobbies that I have accumulated or dabbled in (climbing, drawing, modifying cars, martial arts etc). Life is too short to really "give up" anything unless you have had your fill and are ready to move on.

Going to turn 30 in 2 months, so the responsibilities are piling up and it gets hard, but you're never too old to game. Might eventually get too old to ride bobsleds, or do gymnastics, or step into a boxing ring, but for gaming? Nah...might have a bit of trouble with the reflexes but that's about it.

For the people complaining of time, you just have to organize it well and prioritize. I work 13 hours a day, commuting for almost 2 hours, sleep 7 hours, and workout almost every day, yet still finish on average a game every week and a half. Yes, I am married, and yes I do spend quality time with my wife. Once you have kids though, I can imagine that can throw that balance our of whack a bit, and that may well be a bit of a magic switch not just for games, but a lot of things in life. At least for a while.
 

DudeistBelieve

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Zack84 said:
SaneAmongInsane said:
I can't imagine a world where I don't play video games.

I certainly feel that interest in something can wain over time. There was a time in my life I wanted to play everything, now at 23 thats kinda reeled in. Only like one or two releases a year really peak my interest.

But so long as they keep making games I'm interested in I'm going to keep playing them.
Fuck, I don't care what it looks like to be a stickler and correct you on this, but the word is PIQUE, PIQUE MY INTEREST. Don't say shit you don't understand. You're 23; you really should know this. I could've corrected you here when I was 14.
>.> How do I know I don't understand it if no one has corrected me on it.
 

Snotnarok

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My father is roughly 60 and he plays Call of Duty 2, Max Payne 1 & 2and the like, he played Doom 3. He's not huge into games, however he does like playing the odd game to relieve stress. And having a disabled wife is certainly stressful.

My grandmother is 88 years old and she goes to Vegas and Atlantic city and plays the hell out of a lot of slots which she tells me are basically video games and her shining quote?
"Oh I just love the graphics they're awesome!"

So, no there's no magic switch, your friend just has an odd perception of the mind. You may not be able to play games that require you to sit and play for hours on end all the time but that's probably because of life.
I stay at home pretty much 24/7 because I work from home and take care of my as mentioned disabled mother, and I don't get much time to play many big games...I'm looking at you Skyrim.
 

Olas

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I'll give up video games when I'm dead.

In other words, I'm NEVER giving up video games.
 

Brotha Desmond

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As a sullen hate-filled misanthrope I don't need to worry about a social life. When I'm not at work chances are I'm gaming.
 

Sonic Doctor

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xshadowscreamx said:
i cant imagine what games will look like when im 50.
I was going to say the same thing. For me that means in 23 years. I wish I could live to see some form of a holodeck, but I still think that is too far off.
 

JagermanXcell

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I'm 17 years old. I'll still play games for all of college. I'll still play games when I find my soul mate, hell I might even get her into gaming. I'll still play games even with my child. If all games in the future become digital only, screw that, i'll just play my hard copies. If all games in the future cost 100$ for only 3 hours of gameplay (the rest you have to pay for DLC wise), i'll pull out the NES, PS2, N64 ect. like a smart consumer. And of course I'll play games to the grave. As for the afterlife... the obvious answer...
 

Jason Rayes

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Icehearted said:
Your friend sounds immature, no offense.
None taken, he is indeed. I vented my frustrations by starting a poll. Which has merely served to reaffirm that he is indeed completely wrong.

OT: I love that nearly 100 people picked the stupid responses to the poll. This restores my faith in the internet :D
 

Mikejames

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Not if I can help it, though Lord knows what state the gaming industry will be in forty years.
 

Shaved Apple

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No. But I probably won't have the time to play video games as much after I get my future all figured out.