Poll: Have you ever been in Love?

[Vitor Goncalves]

I personally classify my feelings in 3 categories, crush, passion and love.

I define crush as a momentaneous thing, and it is gone after "consummation". I had hundreds of crushes through all my life.

Passion I think is when consummation does not let it go, but can be dismissed when I start to focus on the other person's flaws. I had a it several times.

Love only time can dismisses, and I believe often not even time will dismiss. No matter how awful the other person is and makes you feel, there is just something that seems to blind you and seduce you and totally rock your world. There were only 3 people so far I really fell in love with, including my current relationship.

 

[Ensiferum]

How about a simple "yes" answer? Or Even a "Yes but not anymore" or a "Yes I am now.

 

[agrandstudent]

No pre-College romance lasts past High School Graduation.

LIES!!!! I started going out with my current girlfriend when I was a sophomore in High School and I am now finishing up my 4th semester in College. We both go to colleges in different states.I'm in NY and she is in MI and we both went to high school in CA. I don't think it would be possible without the internet and skype though.

There needs to be a poll option of in between instant and years.

 

[Sebenko]

five years of slavery, videogames and being too far away.

Love is great.

 

[SimuLord]

I've been truly in love twice. I was engaged at 20 to one girl, married from 27-32 to another. Madly in love with both of them---and they each broke my heart.

And yet I still believe. I'm either a hopeless romantic or a complete idiot.

 

[Valksy]

Yes, of course.

To date it has neither lasted nor ended well.

 

[Riobux]

Twice I've fallen in love and once I had a MASSIVE crush. The crush and the first love didn't go well and the second love doesn't look to go well.

 

[Darth Caelum]

Yes, yes i have. It....changes you.
That's all i'm gonna say.

EDIT: Fine. Due to my fears of A low content post, i'll say more.
Now, in my opinion, none of these choices really fit me. When i first met her, i was INCREDIBLY Annoyed with her.
It was like that for a while......then i guess....i kinda got attached to her.
Yes, she was annoying, she.....was a bit loud, a bit.....arrogant, i guess. But in the end....i kinda began to like her.
I swear to all of you now, if not for her, I would not be where i am today.
and that's my bit.

*Rides off into the sunset*

 

[Abedeus]

No point in it till mid-20s. And the bigger crush you get, the harder it'll hurt.

 

[Axzarious]

Love does not exist. Its just friendship with a fancy name.

And sex, never forget the sex.

I discount that, because you can do that with almost anybody, and friendship does not have to even be a factor.

 

[Blindswordmaster]

My soul is a black pit of anger, hate, and self-loathing. But she managed to find the one point of light in that darkness. Then she just disappeared. I've never felt the same way since. The light, not the pit of blackness; that's still there.

 

[ssgt splatter]

Nope. I thought I was once but it was just a dream.

 

[Cmwissy]

For my family, yes.


However, for females, just lust and money leeching.

 

[peanutch]

Only with me hand.

 

[Arkhangelsk]

Since the general populace says that 15 years olds can't fall in love (real love, that is), I've only had crushes. But I've had one that I would say came pretty close. Was a girl that I cared for really much, who had everything in common with me. I always wanted to be with her, she always made me really happy when I was with her, and I always would make time if she needed my help.

Sadly, she didn't feel the same way. She's still one of my closest friends, though. I managed to get over her, and for now I just hope that we will remain friends.

If we're talking family love though, I love all of my family, despite their flaws.

 

[Arkvoodle]

I thought I was once. Worst mistake of my life.

 

[TheDoctor455]

Yeah, I've been in love, but it was never really requited.
She sees me as more of brother than a potential boyfriend.
Of course, that's mostly because she already had a boyfriend when I met her a few years ago, and they're still together.

EDIT: She also doesn't really know how I feel... I've been careful enough to keep it hidden.
They've known each other longer... I have no right to interfere.

 

[Jaranja]

I've had what I think is love for someone else, yes.

 

[GundamSentinel]

Crushes? Yes. Infatuations? More so. Real love? Hell naw.