Honestly? None of the above, I make a character based on, well, whoever I want to put into a normally harsh and unforgiving world to try and drag out alive on the otherside. For instance, my first FemShep, was both like me in some aspects I like, and unlike me in aspects I didn't like and vice versa. She was as understanding as I was, yet more forgiving then I personally want to be, while also being as in control and dominate as I so furiously attempt to become. Because that's who Miss Autumn Shepard, Engineer Extraordinaire was in my head, I already wrote up the character even before I hit the Character Creator. Also, damn fine ass, could use a more realistically proportioned breasts for an ass kicking member of the military lol But that's just me wishing women in games where both sexy AND real looking, depending on what they are in game.