Poll: How do you see people that sleep around? (Updated)

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D Moness

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So, it is likely that many here that sleep around and many that don't. The question isn't whether or not you have a lot of sex with different people but rather how do you view someone who does? The type of person isn't in question because they are how you would image someone that have sex with lots of people to be, whatever that might be. This thread is not meant to bash on those people but is analyze people's perspectives on sex.

To make this a little easier, I've included a poll that doesn't make real sense with the answers but for the sake of trying to be funny i added it.


Like some already guessed this topic was a small reaction to a certain view expressed in several topics(although i took one to parody).
the reason i took that one because the topicstarted wanted to know the people's view on virgins. The person also added a poll that was except for the other option slightly biased. The other options were that virgins were just young and innocent or sad and pathetic. What surprised me most was that more then a handful agreed and to top it of someone was more or less like that virgins didn't deserve to have an opinion.

I think it is sad to see that in this oversexualized society people that still are virgins are looked down upon or people say they are asexual are called liars etc. It is saddened to see that a general opinion is that when people are not as interested in sex and or relationships that they are social misfits, probably do not fit in or just are lying.

Like some other poster already said why do this and not reply in the topic itself. I did put one post in a topic that gets a post every 10 or so minutes won't be read. It wouldn't surprise me that 80% of the people replying only read the topic and/or opening post before replying. Else most posters here would have already seen i meant this topic as a parody. So i started this topic. Tactless probably but it did get peoples attention(however small that will be).

I will probably have stepped upon a few toes with making this but i do not regret doing it. As for the topic I used honestly i couldn't care less what people do behind closed doors. As long as they do it safe and do not cheat on others. I want to thank the people that posted a honest reply . I didn't really expect that when I created it. Expected to be called out for the poll(and that did happen a lot(although it is as biased as most polls added)). Loved the funny replies a lot.

ps. Kind of slightly worried by the use of the word slut(somehow i was slightly afraid it would get me at least a warning or something).
 

Palademon

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So, all the options imply we see them badly?

I don't care aslong as the person makes it clear it's just for sex. Using people is being gittish.
 

Jonluw

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What Palademon said. Why are all the options negative? Biased poll is biased.

They're just people that have learned to embrace sexuality and pleasure without being embarassed by it.
 

Malk_Content

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Palademon said:
So, all the options imply we see them badly?

I don't care aslong as the person makes it clear it's just for sex. Using people is being gittish.
OTHER: Same as above. So long as everyone knows the situation it is entirely fair and reasonable. Sex is an enjoyable and healthy activity, don't see why you should ever be limited to doing it with one person. Of course if you are with a person who feels otherwise, then you have to be honest with them or limit you habits.
 

WrongSprite

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Terribly poll. And I don't care, as long as they do it relatively safely.
 

Seriphina

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I figure people who sleep around lack a certain amount of self confidence and thrive on any attention they can get. This is not intended to start anyone raging but it's how i personally view them. The ones i know seem to think they are unattractive so are amazed when a guy find them attractive and will go with that guy regardless of what he is interested in.

There are also the other type of person I know who needs excitement in every relationship and in their lafe or they get depressed. I don't know if this is common but i know one person close to me who thinks relationships are all tingles and whirlwinds and when that stops she is onto the next one! Nightmare.

I do think in time these peopl will realise their worth and not feel the need to have multiple partners to be happy and while the excitement and butterflies is fun it's never long term. I suppose as long as they are happy and not causing anyone any harm it's none of my business. :p
 

Outright Villainy

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Is this supposed to be like a parody of the Virgin thread?

If so, it's pretty poor, it has to be said. And if you're not trying to be funny and just ripping them off, try and make your poll options less biased kthnxbye.

Seriphina said:
I figure people who sleep around lack a certain amount of self confidence and thrive on any attention they can get.
Or they just enjoy sex and just want some fun. Mad concept, I know.
 

Korolev

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I view them as people who like sex. If they like sex, so be it. Go ahead. It's their life, not mine.

Of course, there are issues such as disease and pregnancy, but that can be taken care of if you are careful.

Their body belongs to them. Not me. I don't get to tell them how to use it, and frankly, I can't be bothered telling them how to use it. As long as it doesn't hurt the innocent and as long as it doesn't affect me, I simply don't care. It's a personal choice - not one I would take, but then again, how does THEIR personal choice affect how I live MY life?

I don't hang out around the swingers and the promiscuous. Not my crowd. Not my crowd of folks by a long shot. But I wish them all the best, I wish they take care and I wish no harm comes to them. Leave them be. Just leave em be.
 

b3nn3tt

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Other: To each their own. If that's what people want to do, then that's entirely their choice. If people want to never have sex, that's also their choice

Who am I to judge anyone on what they want to do?

Also, the poll could do with a change, as the only option that doesn't negatively judge people is 'other'
 

manythings

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No_Remainders said:
Shrug. Their choice. If they want to be a slut, they can be. No concern of mine.
You called it. So long as it is upfront and both people know what is going on then that's they way they do it. I consider it a bit whorish but some people want to have a relationship, some people want to screw.
 

FallenTraveler

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I see them with my eyes...

Whore and Sluts (the men are the whores)
Actually, I dont particularly care either way, I get annoyed when they are both sluts or whores, AND STUPID though, then I hate them.
 

Valksy

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So long as they are honest, I have no problem at all with it. If it involves cheating and personal soap operas, forget about it. I don't consider them sluts, I don't think they should "know better" or assume they will "grow out of it".
 

Brandon237

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Depends on age, people my age and around, they are sluts who are not being careful.
Over about eighteen, fair enough, do it safely, don't tell me all about it and I won't care.
In a relationship, err... what?

Make polls a little more specific and a little less one-sided next time :)
 

Baneat

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Outright Villainy said:
Is this supposed to be like a parody of the Virgin thread?

If so, it's pretty poor, it has to be said. And if you're not trying to be funny and just ripping them off, try and make your poll options less biased kthnxbye.

Seriphina said:
I figure people who sleep around lack a certain amount of self confidence and thrive on any attention they can get.
Or they just enjoy sex and just want some fun. Mad concept, I know.
I'll agree that it's a shitty poll that is loaded three-ways to the OP's point of view.