Perhaps I stated that a bit too broadly. There is a big difference between suicide and denying oneself of one of natures greatest carnal pleasures.Chefodeath said:
Poll: How do you see virgins?
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Nothing wrong with being a virgin. We were all (hopefully) virgins at one time. I can understand why some people would want to save themselves for marriage, but personally, I feel that as long as it's someone you trust and care for, there's nothing wrong with sex (though I'm sure I'll change my tune when my first daughter is born), and if it doesn't happen, or you feel you're not ready, that's fine too.
Excellent subjects for ritual sacrifice, second only to faithful nuns/monks, and right ahead of newborn infants (who are virgins, but not generally via choice).
To give a slightly more serious answer, I generally see them through telescope, as they're changing clothes, having carelessly left their curtains open.
To give an entirely serious answer, it's a purely incidental characteristic that has absolutely no bearing on anything, excluding whatever arbitrary value the people directly involved in the virginity (and the removal thereof, and the lack of removal thereof) place on it.
To give a slightly more serious answer, I generally see them through telescope, as they're changing clothes, having carelessly left their curtains open.
To give an entirely serious answer, it's a purely incidental characteristic that has absolutely no bearing on anything, excluding whatever arbitrary value the people directly involved in the virginity (and the removal thereof, and the lack of removal thereof) place on it.
You'll get laid eventually, when it's the right time. Far fatter and uglier people than you have had sex, don't worry about it so much.
Depends. If they are older and desperately trying to get some but cannot because they have gotten creepy in a "feel up drunk girls" sort of way (I've seen it happen), or if they are too scared to commit because of a fear of a broken heart or whatever, then yeah, I'd say they are sad.
Fact is, and they never tell you this but chances are you're not getting married to the first person you get with, unless you marry them first. So all that worry over having to be in a relationship first or after the big event, is pointless. The odds are good they won't be your last and making your first time all special is dumb. Every time ought to be special, or at least enjoyable.
Otherwise, who cares? I mean, being a virgin forever is obviously a bit strange, but people have their reasons. That being said, I don't personally see what the big deal is. It's just sex and you're going to have to get it out of the way and get good at it eventually. Just pray that it isn't awkward or that something bad doesn't happen. Find someone who knows what they are doing, be safe and have fun is the best advice I can offer.
Fact is, and they never tell you this but chances are you're not getting married to the first person you get with, unless you marry them first. So all that worry over having to be in a relationship first or after the big event, is pointless. The odds are good they won't be your last and making your first time all special is dumb. Every time ought to be special, or at least enjoyable.
Otherwise, who cares? I mean, being a virgin forever is obviously a bit strange, but people have their reasons. That being said, I don't personally see what the big deal is. It's just sex and you're going to have to get it out of the way and get good at it eventually. Just pray that it isn't awkward or that something bad doesn't happen. Find someone who knows what they are doing, be safe and have fun is the best advice I can offer.
Yep, pretty much this. Believe it or not, sex is fun but not the be all and end all of life (except that there's no life in the absence of same, but that's way too philosophical for a Saturday night).ten.to.ten said:
Now, I'll admit to being a few years removed from being 17, but yeah, it can be an obsessive issue for the uninitiated. Seriously, though-- don't do anything dumb to quench that thirst. Don't get a disease, don't sleep with anyone you wouldn't want to look at in the morning, and above all, don't get her preggers. And no, don't assume that she's on the pill and free of STDs.
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