Poll: How does your area treat homosexuality?

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motyr

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it's generally accepted. i say "generally" because, while gay marriage is recognized by the government, you still have those who discriminate. homophobia is more rampant here than any other singular discrimination i can think of (ie. racism), but that isn't saying very much to begin with. Homophobia is frowned upon and punishable.

we have a yearly pride parade, unabashed "gay villages", and no one is actively afraid to come out for any broad societal reasons (individual families may differ, but they don't speak for the whole metropolitan area). take that as you will.
 

Drummah

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In Toronto, practically every other couple downtown is a gay couple. (Not obvious, just to the experienced observer)

So very accepted. :)
 

xavi

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I live in a small country town in Tennessee so...no. Not okay by many people.haha.
 

ace_of_something

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Considering it was the first state to specifically make a law where it was illegal for gay folks to get married... and ya know [a href=http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0171804/]Boys don't cry[/a] and all that. I was clear on the other side of the state though... I'm pretty sure it could have just as easily happened there I mean [a href=http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Matthew_Shepard]this was just about as close[/a].

Though where I live now is at best 'tolerant' but it's still not 'good.' Which is especially sad for a city of half a million people.

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The degrees of tolerance around here are strange. As an abstract concept homosexuality is frowned upon by the general populace until it comes to someone personally known, then it comes down to judging that person as an individual. It's almost as if people think their gay friends are awesome, but the others are the ones that the social conservative fear-mongers warn them about.
Yeah this is a good way to describe the city I now live in.
 

Domou

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I live in a pretty accepting area of homosexuals, I'd think. Of course, there's always those people who live here that hate the shit out of gays, though. I don't know the stance on the transgender acceptance or not. I know all my friends are okay with me being such.
I made the mistake of being open with myself when I went to South Korea, which has to be one of the scariest conservative countries I've been to. People get attacked just for being in the 'gay area' of Seoul. Others just refuse to believe that it's even an option for someone to be gay. A Korean co-worker of mine said that her mother believes Korea is 100% "queer free", which is hilariously sad..>:
 

ace_of_something

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Domou said:
I made the mistake of being open with myself when I went to South Korea, which has to be one of the scariest conservative countries I've been to. People get attacked just for being in the 'gay area' of Seoul. Others just refuse to believe that it's even an option for someone to be gay. A Korean co-worker of mine said that her mother believes Korea is 100% "queer free", which is hilariously sad..>:
I had a friend who was in the (American) military in SoKo she went jogging on the beach in track pants, a sports bra, and tank top and was arrested for lewd conduct or something. Though that might also have been due to xenophobia.
 

YoungPeaches

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I'd say it's probably generally accepted in South Jersey. However, I don't interact much outside of my social group. My friends and I make jokes at their expense, but they are just jokes. We get pretty angry when people genuinely gay bash.
 

LandoCristo

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Well, since being gay is illegal in Singapore (even though I've never seen them do anything about that), I can't imagine too many people would like it. But my school has a Gay-Straight Alliance club, where people are supposed to talk about it, and have rallies, and shit like that, so not too many people I know are really anti-gay.
 
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I live in San Francisco, the gay capital of the United States.

Interestingly, while gays and lesbians are celebrated here, bisexuals still get short-ended, since the het communities regard them as gay, and the gay communities regard them as traitorous or confused. Fortunately, there's also a sizable pansex community that is more about accepting who you are, whatever you are.[footnote]There's a lot of crossover between the wiccans, the neopagans, the polyamorists, the BDSM folks and the nerverts. It's the community in which we crazy gamer geeks not only get laid, but are considered hot.[/footnote] But I get miffed that my bi- friends have to hide the fact when hanging with the regular gay and lesbian sectors.

TheYellowCellPhone said:
In my school, everyone is (of course) absolute assholes on the subject. One thing that made me sad was when I heard a discussion asking if gays have a mental condition.

I'M SERIOUS.
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I think it was classed as a mental condition until recently if I remember my psychology teacher correctly. It was wrong, but it was.
Homosexuality was removed from the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders in the 1990s.

Homosexuality is classified as a paraphilia or fetish[footnote]Or rather, it would be, if not for the severe political controversy that encompasses all discussions of the relationship between sexuality and mental health.[/footnote] which are, themselves, regarded as normal (id est, normative in the population. compare: spanking, leather, or foot fetishism). Contemporary psychological guidelines do not consider regard paraphilias as dysfunctional except regarding how it interferes with one's ability to function in life.

Regardless, homosexuality is not diagnosed or treated by the psychiatric sector, any more than liberalism or atheism would be. Rather conditions emergent from being ostracized due to one's identity (say, depression, paranoia or in egregious cases, post-traumatic stress disorder) would be considered for treatment.

Gender confusion, on the other hand, along with a whole body of gender issues are still regarded for treatment, but there really is no way around it once one has determined a mismatch between sex and genitalia (or that correction surgery was inappropriately decided by the parents).

238U.
 

Stako

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I'm ok with it as long as it stays away from me... I won't hide that I'm afraid of them, because most of them are damn ... blalh... I don't have a word even. Whatever, I'm not against - everyone has the right to be free. Just stay away from me if you know what I mean.
 
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My immediate area would probably be okay with it (for the most part), but on the other side of town, I'm sure there might be more of an issue. My town is weird like that. The older section is pretty sketchy, then on the other side of the freeway, it's much nicer. The freeway that separates the two sections is like the 39th parallel.
 

kortin

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Well, its a very old person-like community, so stereotypically, not very well at all. However, I wouldn't know for sure because I rarely ever go out and interact with people. I can't wait till I get out of this hellhole...
 

StormShaun

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Im against it since im a Christain but I am tolerent of it...and most of my community is christain since we have two churchs in it...so I will say they are against it but proberly tolerent of it.
 

chaosyoshimage

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While my state may have just approved gay marriage (Or civil unions...), the area I live in is well redneck central filled with plenty of religous people against it. I was always so afraid in school that someone might found out, I basically acted as "straight" as possible, hiding the slight effeminate twang to my voice and constantly hitting on girls...
 
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South Yorkshite and.., rather oddly, I've seen them treat gay people fine if its a person they like but if they do not like the person they will use that they are gay as a reason to cause trouble.

My family on the other hand... Well I am pretty sure for the past like 6 years my mother has WANTED me to be gay, mainly I think cause she wanted a girl instead of a guy.
 

Alleged_Alec

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Despite living in the bible belt of the Netherlands, people as a whole don't really have an issue with it. Besides the followers of the PVV of course, and perhaps a few uptight religious people.
 

sam42ification

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Where i live homosexuality is accepted and many gay people live there. Half an hour away is the town i go to school and do most activities and they're not at all accepting of homosexuals. I would lose most of my freinds if they knew i was gay.