Poll: How important is sex to you?

[ReservoirAngel]

I'm weird like that. A self-admitted nympho (or near enough to it) that likes being in a committed relationship.

I understand were you're coming from - I'd hate the idea that my relationship isn't open, but I'm more than happy just being with my partner and no one else because I think she's so hot and we're basically perfect for each other. I don't think really liking one person is that strange, it's just that not many people would flat out say having lots of sex is as important as (say) having a partner who'll play lots of games with them.

That said I love getting other people involved so much if my partner flat out said they weren't comfortable I'd be a sad bunny.

God knows I know some hot guys that I'd like to sleep with, but I don't wanna cheat and the whole "threesome" thing just makes me uncomfortable. Ideally, I imagine it would be pretty damn hot, but that's only in my head. In reality it'd probably be more awkward than that time my mum found my handcuffs...

 

[Snork Maiden]

I'm weird like that. A self-admitted nympho (or near enough to it) that likes being in a committed relationship.

I understand were you're coming from - I'd hate the idea that my relationship isn't open, but I'm more than happy just being with my partner and no one else because I think she's so hot and we're basically perfect for each other. I don't think really liking one person is that strange, it's just that not many people would flat out say having lots of sex is as important as (say) having a partner who'll play lots of games with them.

That said I love getting other people involved so much if my partner flat out said they weren't comfortable I'd be a sad bunny.

God knows I know some hot guys that I'd like to sleep with, but I don't wanna cheat and the whole "threesome" thing just makes me uncomfortable. Ideally, I imagine it would be pretty damn hot, but that's only in my head. In reality it'd probably be more awkward than that time my mum found my handcuffs...

If you think it'd be awkard it helps to get really drunk. I've had a threesome with the straightest guy you could ever imagine and even though I (accidentally) got a bit of ass grabbing in there he said it was the hottest thing he's ever done - really doubt he would've gone through with it if the three of us weren't nailed.

 

[ReservoirAngel]

I'm weird like that. A self-admitted nympho (or near enough to it) that likes being in a committed relationship.

I understand were you're coming from - I'd hate the idea that my relationship isn't open, but I'm more than happy just being with my partner and no one else because I think she's so hot and we're basically perfect for each other. I don't think really liking one person is that strange, it's just that not many people would flat out say having lots of sex is as important as (say) having a partner who'll play lots of games with them.

That said I love getting other people involved so much if my partner flat out said they weren't comfortable I'd be a sad bunny.

God knows I know some hot guys that I'd like to sleep with, but I don't wanna cheat and the whole "threesome" thing just makes me uncomfortable. Ideally, I imagine it would be pretty damn hot, but that's only in my head. In reality it'd probably be more awkward than that time my mum found my handcuffs...

If you think it'd be awkard it helps to get really drunk. I've had a threesome with the straightest guy you could ever imagine and even though I (accidentally) got a bit of ass grabbing in there he said it was the hottest thing he's ever done - really doubt he would've gone through with it if the three of us weren't nailed.

It wouldn't work out. I lose all sense of coordination when drunk (and thus become bad at sex apparently), and my boyfriend is the "only one person for me" type so even if I tried to bring up the idea to him he'd just shoot me down immediately.

Still, I can imagine it... aww yeah...

 

[Blow_Pop]

I don't judge people's character on how much or little they have had sex. I tend to go without for long periods of time anyways and waited 19 years before the first time I ever did so *shrugs* I judge people's character on them.

 

[aei_haruko]

I think i perfer intamacy, like cuddling, or kissing, to me, if one can't express intamacy and love, one shouldn't have sex. I want more intamacy with my girlfriend first, what are your thoughts?

Well, I don't think intimacy should be a precursor to sex if it's just casual sex with a stranger, and both of you don't plan on sticking around. But, I do enjoy it with boyfriends and think there's nothing wrong with it.

idk, i think that it's the paramount of a realation, which is to pass the genes of your partner and you unto another human being. It's an amazingly beautiful thing, and I think that you REALLY need to have intamacy to have sex, if you don't want to be with another person, why put yourself and your genes into a kid with that person?

 

[Canadamus Prime]

As I've never experienced it before, I'm curious as to what it feels like, but otherwise it's not that important. I have much bigger priorities.

 

[mechashiva77]

idk, i think that it's the paramount of a realation, which is to pass the genes of your partner and you unto another human being. It's an amazingly beautiful thing, and I think that you REALLY need to have intamacy to have sex, if you don't want to be with another person, why put yourself and your genes into a kid with that person?

That's where protection comes in. Sure there's a risk, but part of why people want to have sex is for pleasure and not procreation. That, and for some people, they don't see sex as this really deep moment, rather "hey let's both enjoy ourselves for a while". You're sharing intimate details with them, but usually for the main reason of getting pleasure. If neither of the partners want to stick around, then they don't have to.

Personally, I think sex is what you make of it. It can be this private act that should be shared with someone you love, or it's just a way of satisfying your desires with someone who is willing to participate and maybe get something out of it too. It depends on what both parties want at the time.

 

[tehweave]

I've had sex. No, really. To be honest, it's fun, and if my partner has fun too, then I'm happy, but it isn't something I'm obsessed with or even something I really really want. It's something that is good if I do it, but it's never been SPECTACULAR.

 

[aei_haruko]

idk, i think that it's the paramount of a realation, which is to pass the genes of your partner and you unto another human being. It's an amazingly beautiful thing, and I think that you REALLY need to have intamacy to have sex, if you don't want to be with another person, why put yourself and your genes into a kid with that person?

That's where protection comes in. Sure there's a risk, but part of why people want to have sex is for pleasure and not procreation. That, and for some people, they don't see sex as this really deep moment, rather "hey let's both enjoy ourselves for a while". You're sharing intimate details with them, but usually for the main reason of getting pleasure. If neither of the partners want to stick around, then they don't have to.

Personally, I think sex is what you make of it. It can be this private act that should be shared with someone you love, or it's just a way of satisfying your desires with someone who is willing to participate and maybe get something out of it too. It depends on what both parties want at the time.

I guess it depenhds on the people, but to me it's so much more than just some action. Like for something so amazingly beautiful, i guess that it kinda offends me that people treat it so lightly. Idk, i admit you have interesting points

 

[No_Remainders]

I don't really care.

Not saying I don't like it, I do, but I don't really care if I'm getting any or not.

However, I do NOT appreciate people thinking I give a fuck about their sexual encounters.

 

[Zarkov]

The rational part of me doesn't care, whereas the rest cares far too much. It's kind of frustrating.

That's a great way to put it.

In fact, yeah. That's my answer.

 

[Zarkov]

I think i perfer intamacy, like cuddling, or kissing, to me, if one can't express intamacy and love, one shouldn't have sex. I want more intamacy with my girlfriend first, what are your thoughts?

Well, I don't think intimacy should be a precursor to sex if it's just casual sex with a stranger, and both of you don't plan on sticking around. But, I do enjoy it with boyfriends and think there's nothing wrong with it.

idk, i think that it's the paramount of a realation, which is to pass the genes of your partner and you unto another human being. It's an amazingly beautiful thing, and I think that you REALLY need to have intamacy to have sex, if you don't want to be with another person, why put yourself and your genes into a kid with that person?

Aha. And that's why we kill the genes in that person before they do anything beautiful! And if it does do something beautiful, then just take a hammer to it.

And that's how America solves their problems, kids.

 

[mechashiva77]

I guess it depenhds on the people, but to me it's so much more than just some action. Like for something so amazingly beautiful, i guess that it kinda offends me that people treat it so lightly. Idk, i admit you have interesting points

I can understand that

 

[Colour Scientist]

I think it's a very important part of any relationship, personally (you know, above the age 15 or so or whenever you're ready)

This, there was no real poll option for it. Sex is definitely important in a relationship and it's nice but it's not as big a deal as a lot of people make it out to be.

If I'm not in a relationship I can go for a few months without it bothering me too much but eventually I will start to miss it.

 

[Laser Priest]

I don't really seem to have a sex drive, so not at all.

I'm not sure if this is for the best or worst.

 

[Exterminas]

Huh, interesting topic.

To me sex has always been a sad excuse. I am a male, so I will go on a limb here, if I say:
Sex is always worse than you imagine it. There has been no occaison in my life were the sex with a person was able to live up to the expectations. (Maybe I just suck at sex)

Society is so bound on telling everyone how great sex is that they forget to mention that in the end it is just a bunch of hormones raging though your system for a few moments, before you realize that you will have to share the limited space of your bed tonight and make breakfast for two the next morning.

The whole concept of sex just seems to be not worth it to me. All you get is a short buzz that can be just as easily achieved by taking a couple of pills. Granted it is not that unhealthy, but only if you are lucky.

So in summary I guess you could say I dislike sex. It just seems like an outdated concept to me. I mean procreation and buzzing your brain can be achieved far more easily so why still stick to that rite?

 

[Monkfish Acc.]

Don't give a shit.

Never have given a shit.

Never will give a shit.

Not a fucking single shit is given by me.

My hands are covered in shit that I am fucking keeping.

One time a dude came up and dumped a lorry full of shit onto my lawn and when someone asked me to give it to the subject of how much sex people are having since it was just stinking up the place I told him no.


(What I am saying is it is not important to me at all)

 

[aei_haruko]

I guess it depenhds on the people, but to me it's so much more than just some action. Like for something so amazingly beautiful, i guess that it kinda offends me that people treat it so lightly. Idk, i admit you have interesting points

I can understand that

thanks. I guess that Beauty is philosophical, so ya can't win on it