You're dating the wrong women if all they are to you are investments in return for sex.Shawn MacDonald said:
Poll: How many relationships have you been in?
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I'm currently in my 5th . Seriously though , relationships are overated . I'm starting to believe that i am not one for relationships , usually after a year i get bored ( i know this is a terrible thing to say , but hey i'm a terrible person ). When this relationship fails , and i know it will , i'm out . I'm hanging up my jersey and dedicating myself to becoming a hermit .
Oh whatever makes you happy, but saying women are nothing more than blackholes that suck up your money and you can stick your schlong in to every once in awhile is all kinds of wrong. Just sayinShawn MacDonald said:
It's at least four. I don't really count the ones that happened before college. Not because I think high school romance isn't real, but mine in particular were rather ridiculous. I dated a girl for one hour. We went from lovey-dovey to "fuck you and your stupid face" in that amount of time. And the other pre-college one was just...weird. Yeah...so four is the number of girls I've dated. And the number of girls I've dated is four.
I'm 27 and have been single most of my life. I'm your typical parent's basement nerd who sits around and plays video games of all day. Back in 2008 I tried my hand at dating and surprisingly dated 3 separate women all within the same year. One of those actually became my now ex-girlfriend. She was completely insane.
I think I will try my hand at dating again once I get my shit together over the course of a few years. I fucked up college and still live at home, but about to take classes. Then perhaps I will set some time aside to focus on the ladies.
I think I will try my hand at dating again once I get my shit together over the course of a few years. I fucked up college and still live at home, but about to take classes. Then perhaps I will set some time aside to focus on the ladies.
Technically, I've only had one which lasted about 9 months I think, it ended last month.
There was one time a few years back when I was given a chance but it wasnt really considered a proper relationship to the girl and only lasted 2 days, we're friends still now though. I don't think it really counts.
At least I can't complain now that I have never had a girlfriend and now I know that it is at least possible for someone to be attracted to me. Luckily this first relationship and life in general for the past year has made me more social and open so it may be easier getting into another relationship later.
The first relationship taught me a lot at least and I got some lessons out of it and learnt a bit more about myself.
I'm kinda glad to be out of it at the moment at least since I can't deal with all the drama since she was very, very depressive and had some major problems and just complained almost constantly about something. She broke up with me by the way.
There was one time a few years back when I was given a chance but it wasnt really considered a proper relationship to the girl and only lasted 2 days, we're friends still now though. I don't think it really counts.
At least I can't complain now that I have never had a girlfriend and now I know that it is at least possible for someone to be attracted to me. Luckily this first relationship and life in general for the past year has made me more social and open so it may be easier getting into another relationship later.
The first relationship taught me a lot at least and I got some lessons out of it and learnt a bit more about myself.
I'm kinda glad to be out of it at the moment at least since I can't deal with all the drama since she was very, very depressive and had some major problems and just complained almost constantly about something. She broke up with me by the way.
I'm 19 and I've had 0. To be honest, I don't even know where to begin to start. Its supposedly something that everyone is just supposed to "know" and fuck all who don't. I had a group of friends in high school, and we hung around all the time and had lots of fun, but then graduation.......and now I'm sitting in my room on the internet every day, can't find a job, and have zero interest/idea in what I want to go to school for. I'm kind of lost to be honest. I mean, I don't have anyone to talk to for help on the subject of anything, so.....yea zero. And probably going to be zero indefinitely due to how unlucky I've been so far in life.
Went for 7-10, although realistically only 4 were long enough to really qualify as "relationships"...the rest were 2-4 weekers that ended fairly abruptly. I sat on the fence deciding whether to count them or not, and eventually went with "yes", because it makes me sound more awesome.
0.
Why?
Probably the whole aspergers thing, though I've met plenty of people with autism who have or have been in relationships.
In the end it's most likely just too little too late for me. I'm 29 now and I've never really held down a job, nor have I been too keen at reading people's subtle expressions or anticipating their behaviour or mannerisms. Just as when a child doesn't learn to speak in the first 8 or so years of his life, he probably won't ever be able to properly speak at all. In that regard I feel I've past the point to properly develop my social skills.
At this point me having a relationship with a woman feels as improbable as me walking on the Moon.
Why?
Probably the whole aspergers thing, though I've met plenty of people with autism who have or have been in relationships.
In the end it's most likely just too little too late for me. I'm 29 now and I've never really held down a job, nor have I been too keen at reading people's subtle expressions or anticipating their behaviour or mannerisms. Just as when a child doesn't learn to speak in the first 8 or so years of his life, he probably won't ever be able to properly speak at all. In that regard I feel I've past the point to properly develop my social skills.
At this point me having a relationship with a woman feels as improbable as me walking on the Moon.
What about fuckbuddies?Jonluw said:
If yes: four (maybe five)
If no: three (maybe four)
Eeeehh... leave it, if it's any consolation, women probably feel the same way about him.Phasmal said:
2 total. The first one lasted less than a month before she broke up with me. I went into the second one keeping myself from setting my expectations high and expecting her to break up with me in an imminent fashion (not in a panic, just with acceptance). I had to keep adjusting when I expected her to break up with me.
She never did. We've been together for five and a half years and are engaged. Oh sweet Lady Irony.
She never did. We've been together for five and a half years and are engaged. Oh sweet Lady Irony.
