Poll: How many relationships have you been in?

[Gatx]

Zero? ZERO?! Why is that the highest voted choice? I didn't think the stereotype was going to have THAT much basis in fact. Is it an age thing? Are most of the users on this site too young for a real relationship (if that's the case, more power to you, you're making smart decisions) but I think by the end of college you should have had at least one relationship right.

 

[Zack Alklazaris]

Nearly 19 and so far I've been in 0000000000.0 relationships.

Redundant? Maybe.

Better than just posting foreveralone.jpg though.

or you could of just experienced the same thing I did. While I had attraction to girls in high school I just couldn't see myself being in a relationship with any of them. They all seemed immature and not very intellectual. Seemed like all they cared about was "the rules of high school".

-shrug- I didn't find my first real GF till college. I wouldn't worry about it too much, least not yet.

3 not counting online, 6 if you do.

 

[Cheesus333]

I don't know how to answer the question...

I have had 10 separate relationships, but only with 5 different girls.

But of those ten, only two of them really meant anything. I'll go with two.

 

[Venoregard]

18 years old. 0 relationships.

 

[smithy_2045]

I've been kissed once. That means I was in a relationship, right?

 

[The Night Angel]

Well for me a relationship is being together about a month or so, so I'd say 5. I don't mind being alone, I don't look for relationships, they just happen. I'd rather just have one, and have it work out to be honest.

 

[MetalMagpie]

Two proper relationships and one "friends with benefits".

And I'm hoping it'll stay at that number. The second guy is a good'n, and I plan to hold on to him as long as I can.

 

[violinist1129]

Does anyone else sense an Escapist dating thread coming on?
Not entirely a joke, it's just crazy enough to work.

OP: One. Nothing to be excited about. High School girls are pretty shallow, but I'm off to Princeton in the fall, and the people there are many things, but not shallow.

 

[Evilsanta]

0. And 20 years old. And the main reason mostly due to me not trying and the reason for that is circumstances I could not control(It involved my childhood, teenage year and my cancer sick mom).

Dating or getting in to a reltationship was never really that high on my priority list.

 

[Comrade_Beric]

Concurrently or consecutively?

 

[Pat8u]

0, why because I don't need to have a girlfriend having a partner puts to much pressure on people and its how many people ruin their lives plus I have no real emotional need for a girlfriend and I never will.
but eh if you want a partner I say go for it

friends put too much pressure on me anyways,A GF would just make it worse.

 

[Mr Cwtchy]

Nearly 19 and so far I've been in 0000000000.0 relationships.

Redundant? Maybe.

Better than just posting foreveralone.jpg though.

or you could of just experienced the same thing I did. While I had attraction to girls in high school I just couldn't see myself being in a relationship with any of them. They all seemed immature and not very intellectual. Seemed like all they cared about was "the rules of high school".

-shrug- I didn't find my first real GF till college. I wouldn't worry about it too much, least not yet.

3 not counting online, 6 if you do.

Perhaps, but I think it's more a combination of cripplingly low self-esteem, being fuck ugly, middling future prospects(career-wise) and having a personality more bland than a cracker without cheese.

 

[Zack Alklazaris]

Nearly 19 and so far I've been in 0000000000.0 relationships.

Redundant? Maybe.

Better than just posting foreveralone.jpg though.

or you could of just experienced the same thing I did. While I had attraction to girls in high school I just couldn't see myself being in a relationship with any of them. They all seemed immature and not very intellectual. Seemed like all they cared about was "the rules of high school".

-shrug- I didn't find my first real GF till college. I wouldn't worry about it too much, least not yet.

3 not counting online, 6 if you do.

Perhaps, but I think it's more a combination of cripplingly low self-esteem, being fuck ugly, middling future prospects(career-wise) and having a personality more bland than a cracker without cheese.

See thats your problem you need confidence. Doesn't matter how "ugly" you look as long as you project good confidence. Thats confidence, not "I'm your fucking god!" How is she suppose to trust you when you don't trust yourself?

 

[Phasmal]

Zero? ZERO?! Why is that the highest voted choice? I didn't think the stereotype was going to have THAT much basis in fact. Is it an age thing? Are most of the users on this site too young for a real relationship (if that's the case, more power to you, you're making smart decisions) but I think by the end of college you should have had at least one relationship right.

To be honest, I'm surprised by all the zeros too. I didn't thnk it would be the top one.
All the gamer guys I know are either in a relationship or have been, I thought the stereotype was overblown. Plus nerdy guys are cute (as long as they don't have women issues).

 

[Mr Cwtchy]

See thats your problem you need confidence. Doesn't matter how "ugly" you look as long as you project good confidence. Thats confidence, not "I'm your fucking god!" How is she suppose to trust you when you don't trust yourself?

Well, the way I see it, if there's a girl I care about enough to want a relationship with, I'd presumably want the best for her.

And my conclusion is the best is definitely not me, so in the unlikely event that someone actually takes interest in me, I'd turn her down anyway, for her sake more than anything else. Hypothetical Girl could do so much better.

I do believe I've just thoroughly angsted this thread. Woo.

 

[Zack Alklazaris]

See thats your problem you need confidence. Doesn't matter how "ugly" you look as long as you project good confidence. Thats confidence, not "I'm your fucking god!" How is she suppose to trust you when you don't trust yourself?

Well, the way I see it, if there's a girl I care about enough to want a relationship with, I'd presumably want the best for her.

And my conclusion is the best is definitely not me, so in the unlikely event that someone actually takes interest in me, I'd turn her down anyway, for her sake more than anything else. Hypothetical Girl could do so much better.

I do believe I've just thoroughly angsted this thread. Woo.

I see you need the same thing I did. A woman that face palms you. Tells you to shut up she know whats she wants. lol oh the memories.

 

[mental_looney]

I'm 25 and I put 4-6 but it's 4, 3 not serious all, two in university, one the year after and then this one has been going on for 3 and a half years...

 

[Combustion Kevin]

19 years old, zero relationships, but still trying.
got close once, but we decided against it.

 

[Aitamen]

Polyamorous, so maybe a little different depending on how you define relationship... I've had 4 different fuck buddies/fwb,I've been in a dating group of 6 people, and I've been with my current girlfriend for 7 years, 8 in June...

So I'm going with 10+, since I was good friends and more with all mentioned above *shrugs*