-NOTE: I haven't seen The Force Awakens yet, and I'm pretending the prequels never existed, so take this with a grain of salt-
I like The Force as like... just a skill, an ordinary skill that most people don't focus on because of it's rare, unpredictable, and requires an enormous amount of training just to jump 3 inches higher (arguably an athletic skill) or powers of premonition that could be construed as logic or intuition. (there's a dude with a blaster in the corner, and he's going to shoot at your head as he ambushes you.)
It's rare, and powerful, but not enough to change a universe, galaxy, planet, or even a modest city by itself. Vader was a sith master, but even then he could only predict stuff better then average, throw boxes weighing ~20lb at a time, and choke one person by using his full concentration for like 15 seconds. Palpatine and Yoda were physically weak, completely helpless without the force.
I'd also like to see Jedi using weapons besides lightsabers, which Luke Vader and Palpatine all did. The Force was just means to an end for the Empire, the Death Star was their endgame. Luke often used blasters, explosives, spacecraft, Landspeeders, and fisticuffs. He opted to use a floating bicycle that shot lasers over swinging his beam sword around. Jedi pilots, marksmen (OR MARKSWOMEN OF ASIAN DESCENT), spies, or tacticians (yeah I know Leia's deal). Or explosives experts. Imagine a scene where a jedi disarms a large high-yield explosive with complicated counter-measures, alone. The only way they succeed is by thinking about the person who made it, and speculating what THEY would do to make a warhead impossible to move or transport.
Basically, use The Force (in the movies) as just "that extra push" that doesn't define the characters, just give them a mysterious and alien advantage. It's just a small component among all the blasters, bombs, missles, aircraft, spacecraft, cannons, AT-ATs, personal/political influence, and everything else that makes an inter-galactic war an actual war, and not just "whoever has the best Force powers wins."
The fact that Disney has their (purse)strings all over the new movies makes me wary of them. Wait- maybe *I* am a Jedi! Maybe I can see what lies beyond! Or maybe I'm just speculating on a very deliberate corporate move to try to collect all money that's ever existed. Maybe I'm wrong, even, and the new trilogy will be a collective 6 hour-long blowjob while caressing my balls and massaging my carapace. MAYBE.