Poll: How's the folks?

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DanielBrown

Dangerzone!
Dec 3, 2010
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Still living at home with my mother since I don't have a job yet. Our relationship is good, I reckon, but she's never really been a mother to be. More like a friend that doesn't give a shit about what I do with my life.

My father's been dead pretty much all my life.
 

DJDarque

Words
Aug 24, 2009
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It's a decent, but strained relationship, and getting more so. They are decent people and good parents, but I'm just ready to leave. The only problem is that my mom can no longer work and dad can't afford everything on his own, so I'm stuck helping them financially. On top of that my mom has gone all religious on me after I finally told her I was an atheist.
 

Brutal Peanut

This is so freakin aweso-BLARGH!
Oct 15, 2010
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It wasn't too great during my pre-teen/teen years.

My dad was an alcoholic, and used to get pretty damn depressed. We had a pretty rocky relationship when I was growing up, but he's been sober now for awhile, and we had our heart to hearts. I forgave him awhile ago, but we don't see each other very often. He has a fiancee and is getting his career back on track. We do exchange calls and texts once a month or so. It doesn't help that we are both homebodies. Very hermit-like.lol

My mom had a few mental, and depression issues when I was growing up and she could get abusive (mentally and physically). We've never really had a good relationship. Ours I would classify as severely rocky. But she's in her 50's now, remarried, moved nine hours away and the past has quieted down, but it's still a slow healing process between the two of us.

My siblings and I always get along great - though they all have their frustrations with each other that span back to problems that arose before I was even born. They are all older then I am, by a wide margin. (My dad, is their step-dad, btw).

I love my life now. It's quiet. A simple, quiet, uncomplicated life in a nice little house on a quiet street. It's just....just awesome. :)
 

Snotnarok

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Nov 17, 2008
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Depends, I live with my parents because my mom has progressive aphasia, and I stay home to take care of her. So...things are good in some ways but absolute shit in others, it's horrible watching ANOTHER family member slowly degenerate.
 
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I can't complain really. I have a fantastic relationship with my two older sisters and my mother. My dad, well, we pretend he doesn't exist. It's not something I dwell on though and it doesn't really bother me anymore. All in all, we're doing great.
 

hazabaza1

Want Skyrim. Want. Do want.
Nov 26, 2008
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It's great. Good standings with my mum, and while I don't live with my dad, I see him pretty often.
 

endnuen

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Sep 20, 2010
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Being 21 I live 180 km from my parents. Our relationship is fine. We speak once or twice a week and see each other with a few months interval.
I wouldn't dream of moving back though, not in a lifetime. It's just tedious living at home when you have tried living for yourself.
 

Erja_Perttu

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May 6, 2009
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I hit the family jackpot, with loving liberal parents, an wonderful extended family and a supportive atmosphere. I'd call that good and I'm thankful for them every day.

I'm still living with them, but that should change soon. After my first aborted attempt to move out, I've got high hopes!
 

Seriphina

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Apr 24, 2010
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planning to move out this yr once i qualify. Have been in education way too long. I think my relationship with them is ok but it's their relationship with eachother i can't stand to liv with either and they moan all the time... fed up with it.
 

OldRat

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Dec 9, 2009
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My family isn't bad. I've grown to realize I really don't have much common ground with them and most of our views differ, but I don't really find that all that bad.

I'll be moving out to study before the end of the summer. Guess I'll see what that's like then.
 

Brandon237

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Mar 10, 2010
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Mad as hell with them right now.
Too young to move out by a few years (well, practically).
Do NOT ever want to be parents like they were.

My mom just got into my email account and read all my personal emails, from and to my girlfriend and best friend, many discussing my problems that I had with my mom and family. WTF mom? And both my parents are mad as hell with me for complaining to my friends about them doing stupid crap like this.
 

Erana

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Feb 28, 2008
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My mother is excellent- great taste, fun to be with, supportive. Just a bit.. imposing? She told me the other day that her co-worker thought it was unnessary for her to remind my sister of something she needed done, and that if she doesn't remember, my sister just has to deal with the mistake.
My mother replied, "My children don't make mistakes."
She's one of those people who thinks she's right all the time and that everyone should do as she says because of that. And she is right almost all the time, its just that... Well, you can't really learn if you don't make mistakes, right?

She's getting her knee scoped and I'm fretting over it because of all the implications- more money, her being bed-ridden for a month, the possibility of more severe surgery soon after... I can't sleep. ;-;

My big sister's a bit of the same way, too, but younger, nerdier and with truckloads of confidence. I sometimes worry that she gets too absorbed in her job doing science, though.

I don't wish my father ill, I just don't want him to have any part in my life unless he changes his ways. He won't, though.
 

EeveeElectro

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Aug 3, 2008
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Reading some of these reminds me of something like Eastenders >.< lots o' drama. I feel quite boring now.
I've moved out and since turning 18 have a ton of new found respect for my mum. I still ring her regularly and try get down when I can. It's her birthday tomorrow so I (probably stupidly) put my trust in the post office and sent her a card and a gift card... and I made sure I ordered some flowers online to be delivered for Mothers Day.
I don't have, nor need a dad, but my mums boyfriend is pretty cool, he's into some decent music and TV.
 

Ophiuchus

8 miles high and falling fast
Mar 31, 2008
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My parents are great, I love 'em to bits.

I never moved out (not counting a few years away at university), which isn't what most people would consider ideal at my age but the parents both getting on in years and they need an able-bodied person to help out with the stuff they're no longer quite so capable of. They've done so much for me over the years, it's the least I can do.
 

Fraught

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Aug 2, 2008
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My father I've only met once. He left right before I was born.

My mother I am on good terms with, even if because of her I've lived in places I have hated for years and years, and currently still am. She's made kind a turn-around, though. She's the main anchor in everything that I look forward to in my life currently, really.

And my foster mother is an annoying, hypocritical, whiny, vain and just an all-around contemptible and unlikeable person. The fact that she has only mediocre relations with her own mother, and her own son (that is, to say, my "foster brother") doesn't even like her, testifies a lot. And similar with her sisters, hell, her family tree overall. But those people have similar problems between eachother too.

I swear, I hate this part of my family. Not to mention that thanks to her, it's been hard for me to really get in contact with my own close family in a satisfactory way.
 

Alien Mole

The Quite Obscure
Oct 6, 2009
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Pretty decent to good. I moved out at 16 (uni commute was too long otherwise) and I haven't really been at home for terribly extended periods of time since. Both have long-term partners and they just go on with their lives while I do the same.

My mum gave me half of a messiah complex which is why I occasionally get socially awkward in larger social situations, but she means well. It's just that a little less of the assumption that her little boy was special would've done me good. And I can't connect with her rationally (and barely emotionally) but she tries. It's just that I feel we've largely lost touch since I started going to uni.

My dad's a pretty cool guy. Clever, in control, etc. Thinking on it, I can't really fault him for... anything. I guess that if I felt I needed a role model, he'd be the guy (altough I do aim to achieve more than he did academically)

Interesting question, by the way. Got me thinking.