I think it is. If you think that Christmas shouldn't be celebrated, you shouldn't celebrate it. If you think gifts shouldn't be given on Christmas, you should neither give nor accept them.
If you only stand by your ideals when they're convenient or when they seem "big enough", then they aren't ideals.
This is like someone who boycotts Coca-Cola and then goes ahead and drinks it when he's given one, because he himself didn't pay for it. Like Vegans who eat meat, just because they weren't the ones paying for it. It's hypocritical to accept gifts (or give them) when you think it shouldn't be done. I mean, what's the point of being Anti-Christmas when you then go ahead and CELEBRATE CHRISTMAS? Even if it makes her happy, it would be a breach of your ideals.
On the other hand, from your original post, I can't really figure out (and I think you don't want to talk about it in detail) if you are anti-christmas-gift or anti-celebrating-christmas, so all of this might be moot - if you are just against the practice of having decoration and singing songs on christmas, you can totally give gifts and receive them just like on any other day.
If you only stand by your ideals when they're convenient or when they seem "big enough", then they aren't ideals.
This is like someone who boycotts Coca-Cola and then goes ahead and drinks it when he's given one, because he himself didn't pay for it. Like Vegans who eat meat, just because they weren't the ones paying for it. It's hypocritical to accept gifts (or give them) when you think it shouldn't be done. I mean, what's the point of being Anti-Christmas when you then go ahead and CELEBRATE CHRISTMAS? Even if it makes her happy, it would be a breach of your ideals.
On the other hand, from your original post, I can't really figure out (and I think you don't want to talk about it in detail) if you are anti-christmas-gift or anti-celebrating-christmas, so all of this might be moot - if you are just against the practice of having decoration and singing songs on christmas, you can totally give gifts and receive them just like on any other day.