The moment you react is the moment the trolls know they've won.
Keep a stiff upper lip, and you'll be fine.
Keep a stiff upper lip, and you'll be fine.
Poll: I Just Can't Take it Anymore
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Wow... I feel so loved!
Thanks - it's when I get the advice from funny, honest people who I know share some of my interests, it makes it heal the wounds in a way parents can't.
That is, parents do it with love, you guys do it with respect and, dare I say it, mutual friendship.
Thanks to all,
JacOak
Thanks - it's when I get the advice from funny, honest people who I know share some of my interests, it makes it heal the wounds in a way parents can't.
That is, parents do it with love, you guys do it with respect and, dare I say it, mutual friendship.
Thanks to all,
JacOak
You didn't say how old you are. Are you in High School? Junior High? Are you in seventh grade and she 6th? These are important details.JacOak said:
For what it's worth, a year older is NOTHING. School is the ONLY place this will matter. I'm 33, the last girlfriend I had was 22.
Forget the people making fun of you (are you sure they're actually being 'mean', not just joking with you?). How do you think your girlfriend will feel if you break up with her because OTHER PEOPLE made you?
Don't be gutless. Tell the jerks off and keep your girl if you like her.
Just a little question though,if the guy is 18, and the girl is 17 and they're in a relationship, does that count as consent?
As for your problem, take a piece of paper and write down the names of the ones who have wronged you, in order of severity. After doing so, take revenge on them one by one (the more systematic and agonizing the revenge is the better). Repeat until finished.
As for your problem, take a piece of paper and write down the names of the ones who have wronged you, in order of severity. After doing so, take revenge on them one by one (the more systematic and agonizing the revenge is the better). Repeat until finished.
I think you're taking it a little bit to hard.
One of my friends gets called a pedophile all the time, for absolutely no reason and he just considers it a joke.
One of my friends gets called a pedophile all the time, for absolutely no reason and he just considers it a joke.
This reminds me of a song I once heard:
"She was fifteen, and he was thirty..."
But on a more serious note, I know what you are going through. I went to an all guys school for most of middle school and everyone was an asshole. I became suicidal, and I didn't have the self-confidence to talk to any girls. I felt worthless. Now, I've had several healthy relationships, and others that were relationships in the vaugest sense of the word (if you want to know more about my wild escapades just ask). I'm also one of the best players on my lacrosse team. I'm guessing you are either in middle school or high school. Don't listen to the bullies, what they're doing says more about them than it does about you. Does what they say make you any less of a person? Of course not, you're the one with the girlfriend. They are just as, if not more, insecure than you. Talk to her about it, she might help you. Your parents just might help as well. Don't listen to bullies, they're just trying to make you feel as bad as they do.
To quote another song:
"Every little thing, is gonna be alright."
"She was fifteen, and he was thirty..."
But on a more serious note, I know what you are going through. I went to an all guys school for most of middle school and everyone was an asshole. I became suicidal, and I didn't have the self-confidence to talk to any girls. I felt worthless. Now, I've had several healthy relationships, and others that were relationships in the vaugest sense of the word (if you want to know more about my wild escapades just ask). I'm also one of the best players on my lacrosse team. I'm guessing you are either in middle school or high school. Don't listen to the bullies, what they're doing says more about them than it does about you. Does what they say make you any less of a person? Of course not, you're the one with the girlfriend. They are just as, if not more, insecure than you. Talk to her about it, she might help you. Your parents just might help as well. Don't listen to bullies, they're just trying to make you feel as bad as they do.
To quote another song:
"Every little thing, is gonna be alright."
My opinion: It's not too uncommon for a kid to date someone a year yonger then them in my school, and I never see them being bothered over it. Their only bothering you because they can.
My advice: If it is bothering you that much, the next time someone make fun of you, you have fight back. Even if you don't think you can win, showing that you got the balls to fight makes a huge difference in how willing people are to bother you (i.e. People only mess with others who won't fight back). So the next time that someone decides to pick on you, give them your best punch right between the eyes with no holding back, and don't let up until their on the ground. Stop hurting yourself, and hurt the person/s that are hurting you.
Take my advice from the years of torment I went through. No matter how hard you try to ignore a problem, it dosn't stop until you put a stop to it.
My advice: If it is bothering you that much, the next time someone make fun of you, you have fight back. Even if you don't think you can win, showing that you got the balls to fight makes a huge difference in how willing people are to bother you (i.e. People only mess with others who won't fight back). So the next time that someone decides to pick on you, give them your best punch right between the eyes with no holding back, and don't let up until their on the ground. Stop hurting yourself, and hurt the person/s that are hurting you.
Take my advice from the years of torment I went through. No matter how hard you try to ignore a problem, it dosn't stop until you put a stop to it.