Yeah this is pretty much what I was gonna say.A random person said:By the actual Japanese definition of otaku, you aren't turning into one. You'd be a shut-in if you actually were. Going by the looser western definition of someone who really likes anime and manga, however, which you seem to be doing, be proud of it as nerds should take pride in their nerdiness (of course, I'm biased as a big anime fan myself).
Also, from what I know moving to Japan wouldn't be a terribly good idea; land is very expensive, and they're not too hot on the immigrants either. Now as for visiting, if you have the money I'd say go for it.
Yeah, seriously, not everyone here reads anime/manga, inform us people too.Normalgamer said:Er...not to seem ignorant. But...what's an Okatu O-o?
Points for you to consider:see_you_at_the_GALLOWS said:Recently i have started only showing any serous emotion when watching anime or reading manga, stuff like the ending to toradora! or ichigo 100% making me cry, even though i just dont cry. im just one of those people, i also dont realy show any exitment in much else now. my goal in life is to live in japan because i love the culture so much. im worried to say the least, i have enough social problems with out transforming into a otaku. i live in the south of england, nerds are rare let alone anime/manga otaku. pretty much all i do in my free time is read manga. is it time to cut down or am i just over acting?
THIS GUY RIGHT HERE KNOWS WHAT HE'S TALKIN' BOUT.Points for you to consider:
* Don't worry now, because in the west Japanese-obsessed folks are more-or-less accepted, even trendy. Worry if you get to Japan. If you ever do get to Japan, you will find out that western "otakus" are somewhat of a laughing stock. A friend of mine went to Japan and bought back heaps of newspaper clippings which had comic strips that made fun of Japanese-obsessed westerners. It's quite the running gag over there that white people are so dumb that all they can do is teach English and watch anime. She also lamented that Japanese men would do nothing but stare at her tits when she talked to them.
* Another friend of mine is white-looking but speaks fluent Japanese, he tried to buy a suit in Japan. He started talking to the shop assistant about things like the cut of fabric the suits were made of etc in very fluent Japanese. He was laughed out of the store, because the Japanese people in the store thought that a westerner who could speak fluent Japanese and also seemed to be intelligent was just the funniest goshdarned thing.
* Remember that "otaku" is a negative term in Japan. It has far more negative connotations than "nerd" does in western culture. Don't be quick to use that word or identify yourself as one because the meaning in Japan is a little different, in really subtle but important ways. I'll let you do the research there.
* It's quite normal to cry during a movie, in fact if it's a dramatic movie of some sort and it doesn't elicit some kind of emotional response, the people who made that movie aren't doing their job very well. Don't read too much into your emotional reaction. Maybe you're just growing up, or maybe you're just letting out emotion that's been been built up over other issues because you haven't been allowing yourself to cry over normal stuff.
Yeah so - keep enjoying anime etc... but get into other stuff too. Japan is a nice place but then so are many other places.
If you love massive crowds, being jammed into a train car with 100 other Japanese people, and live in in a 12x12 square then Japan is for you...see_you_at_the_GALLOWS said:my goal in life is to live in japan because i love the culture so much.
4chan would call you a weeboo. I call you a dude/dudette who has found something you like. Ain't nothing more or less to say.see_you_at_the_GALLOWS said:Recently i have started only showing any serous emotion when watching anime or reading manga, stuff like the ending to toradora! or ichigo 100% making me cry, even though i just dont cry. im just one of those people, i also dont realy show any exitment in much else now. my goal in life is to live in japan because i love the culture so much. im worried to say the least, i have enough social problems with out transforming into a otaku. i live in the south of england, nerds are rare let alone anime/manga otaku. pretty much all i do in my free time is read manga. is it time to cut down or am i just over acting?