grassgremlin said:
I don't like harrassment.
I don't like seeing women deciding they don't want to belong as gamers.
I don't like to see queer people feel like they don't belong as gamers.
I don't like to see minorities feel like they don't belong as gamers.
So basically we are in 100% agreement then?
The problem you guys seem to miss is that "tumblr feminisms" is caused by decades of abuse.
I understand why people have extreme views.
Why women hate men.
Why black people hate whites.
Why queer folk hate straight or cis-gendered people.
Yeah, it's is crazy. I agree. I wish these people get help.
I condemn all kinds of hate, and I wont entertain hate. It doesn't matter if hate is justified or not, if you choose to turn hate into a significant part of your personality, you are not worth talking to. And the only hope I have is that those people grow up being very very ashamed of themselves.
It's tough to feel like you belong when everyone tells you you're not.
It's hard not to see it as misognistic when Gamergate grabbed Zoe Quinn by the throat and told her she was a "whore, a slut, a ****" for sleeping with men. Not it wasn't enough just point out collusion. You had to call it five guys. You had to joke about her sex life. Whether it's true or not didn't matter. Whether she is a good person or not didn't matter.
You turned someone who did something wrong on the internet into public enemy number one.
The you shout ethics. I would believe it if four women weren't getting death threats so conveniently when these issues are hottest. The reason why we connect them to you is because these are convenient.
If you can call 12 articles of "Gamers are Dead" out as some collusion, despite most of them being taken way out of context, then I can call you out for death threats made during these past three months.
I see, this is a very very common misconception about what the controversial part of the "Quinnspiracy" was, which I still can't believe in unironically her twitter user name. The controversial part was that people were forbidden to talk about it. That was beyond jarring since the same people who revelled in any sex scandal related to the games industry when it implicated a man, no matter how much actual meat was to the story. There are a lot of good examples for that. However this one came around, and noone wanted to report on it, and noone was allowed to talk about it. That was controversial. That was what ended up being the initial spark of GamerGate.
It has been well documented that Zoe Quinn has been recieving death threats way before any of this. I dare say trying to connect that to GamerGate is misguided.
It's tough. You hear me. Freaking tough to go. Okay, GG isn't that bad when you prove me wrong 1000% of the time.
There was a time I was for GG, you know. I still sympathize with GG. I still talk to them. It's hard. Way hard when people still hurl the same lies around and I'm trying to show facts. I get a few people I reason with.
It's hard talking to a leaderless group when everyone is so different in what they want. Yesterday, all I got was calls to have all journalists fired and how Anita Sarkeesian is the devil. I lost a friend because I did not agree with him when he said I had no right to be offended.
I feel like GG wants the entire internet to be 4chan. We hurl racial and homophobic slurs around. When you criticize someone, make sure to call them a "****, fag, ******" just to get the point across how much you hate their guts for having a opinion.
Honestly? Both on Twitter and on here, the only ones I see using that language are rather obvious troll accounts that usually get swiftly flagged as such. Anyone can open a troll account, sadly due to the nature of twitter, anyone can do the exact same thing. And if your friends were the ones who were having those kinds of discussions, maybe you had rather problematic friends? I can't really judge. I mostly interact with GamerGate on here and reading twitter.
My gosh, I can't stand Davis "Why Blacks Fail" Aurini and Milo Yolo-long-last-name. The latter, his trangenderism article broke me as a human being. http://yiannopoulos.net/2014/08/15/transgenderism-is-a-psychiatric-disorder-its-sufferers-need-therapy-not-surgery/
You literally expect me to support this?
We may have similar opinions. Tumblr feminism IS brutally insane. I agree with that sentiment, but hell no will I follow a group with people like that as there "Based" friends.
I hate those people as well. Sadly they are the only ones who want to stand by this cause. Again, you will learn in time should this take off. It's disheartening. More then once, I wanted to turn my back on all of this for good, for precisely that reason.
But for precisely that reason, I only take from them what information I can verify, and nothing else. If I had a choice, that would be a different story. I'm just not seeing it. Nothing seemed to stick so far, and no big name seemed to be willing to take a pro-ethics stance aside from rightwing journalists and the like.
Yup, I hate that. So again, looks like we are in, what, 90% agreement at the end? ^^