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GodofDisaster

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Whilst I don't have any problem with gay people, I would have to be honest and say. "I would like my child to grow up straight."
 

Puzzles

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While right now I wouldn't particularly want a gay kid, I know that when the baby comes I honestly won't care a scrap what their preferences are.

I will just love the little thing to bits.
 

Dr Namgge

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Would leave the kid as nature intended. What people get up to in the privacy of their bedroom is not my concern. I'd be more worried about teaching them the importance of being ready for sex, and having safe sex, and making it clear that it was less about just boning whoever you fancy, and more about sharing yourself with someone you think is special, than whether or not they fantasise about men, women, or even both.
 

Josdeb

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Ezekel said:
Nibbles said:
This'll be short and sweet. If God loves us all, he will want us to be happy. If we are happy being gay, he will be glad.
That assumes many things. Your view of God may be that simple, mine, and the understanding of God gained from the Bible is not.

God is, at least in the christian faith, a heavenly father. With that role come correction. He knows what is best for us, and is therefore allowed to say this is wrong and this is right. I could go more in depth into my theology but I won't.
I can't help but think that your view of God is a supreme being who can say "I love everyone. Except you, you and you. You guys, well, you go to hell when you die. Good try, but because of the way I made you to begin with, which you had no control over, you are eternally punished for it."

Which raises a good point: If there is a God with a plan for each of us, why make some people gay and then condemn them for it. It's like making a cheese sandwich, then throwing it out straight away because you're lactose intolerant - why even bother?

And a thought for people saying that its nuture that makes you gay, not nature; honestly, I don't rememeber the points in my life where my parents raised me to be gay, but also raised my sister to be straight. It's not like they plonked me down in front of a gay porno every night from my 3rd birthday telling me that I should do that when I get older.
 

Josdeb

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Zeeky_Santos said:
MaxTheReaper said:
wizzerd229 said:
Where is the option for the fact Homosexuality is a choice, not a matter genes.
That's like asking what the Earth is made of and giving the option "bubbles."

It's just...
No.

Anyway, I wouldn't care who my child wanted to get it on with.
Because I wouldn't care about my child.
So what, you honestly believe that Homosexuality is an affliction? that it is never a choice and that no one is happy to be gay?

You have obviously never witnessed a Mardi Gras.

I have met plenty of people who are gay by choice, what say you?!
I say that I have never consiously decided to be gay, yet I am.
 

Nemu

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Zeeky_Santos said:
*snip*

You have obviously never witnessed a Mardi Gras.

I have met plenty of people who are gay by choice, what say you?!

There's a huge difference between being gay and being a whore, thanks.

Just because some chick/dude in a drunken state has sex with someone else who happens to be the same gender does not, I repeat, DOES NOT mean they "chose" to be gay.


...no more than me, in an EXTREMELY drunk and by Gawd I hope drug-induced state, having sex with a man means that I "chose" to be straight.

FFS, to reiterate wot I posted in this thread a month ago: I did not CHOOSE to like other women, it's who I am. Why would I "choose" to be hated by certain members of my family, and by many in society at large, because of the fact that I happen to be a woman with a girlfriend? Yeah. It's a blast seeing those family members at get-togethers.
The threats of bodily harm from complete strangers are a hoot, too. -_-
 

Danny Ocean

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The Infamous Scamola said:
Sexuality isn't something in your genes. If that was the case the so called "homosexual" gene would've died out ages ago.
Huh?

Because you can't have same-sex babies?

That just doesn't make sense to me. Perhaps I'm tired.
 
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Danny Ocean said:
Because you can't have same-sex babies?
Wait... what?

Also, will people stop calling me out on this? It was written a long time ago and frankly I don't care enough to actually discuss this at this point.
 

Rakenar

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It's funny how people can think of homosexuality as a choice. Well, it's not.

On an unrelated note : I find that anyone who wishes to change the "personality" genes of his baby to better reflect how he thinks and not accept the baby for who he will be is a threat to humanity.
 

TheMatt

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i would 'rather' my son be straight, but if he wasn't I wouldn't care all that much. I would 'RATHER' my daughter be a big lesbo as we men are bastards and my greatest fear would be my daughter going out and meeting someone like.... me... cause I was convincing...
 

Nemu

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Zeeky_Santos said:
Nemu said:
Zeeky_Santos said:
*snip*

You have obviously never witnessed a Mardi Gras.

I have met plenty of people who are gay by choice, what say you?!

There's a huge difference between being gay and being a whore, thanks.

Just because some chick/dude in a drunken state has sex with someone else who happens to be the same gender does not, I repeat, DOES NOT mean they "chose" to be gay.


...no more than me, in an EXTREMELY drunk and by Gawd I hope drug-induced state, having sex with a man means that I "chose" to be straight.

FFS, to reiterate wot I posted in this thread a month ago: I did not CHOOSE to like other women, it's who I am. Why would I "choose" to be hated by certain members of my family, and by many in society at large, because of the fact that I happen to be a woman with a girlfriend? Yeah. It's a blast seeing those family members at get-togethers.
The threats of bodily harm from complete strangers are a hoot, too. -_-
1. I never said you were a whore.
2. I never said that everyone chooses
3. If you (collective particle)chose to be gay, something would have made you think to yourself that you'd be happier that way.
4. No choice for the furtherance of a persons happiness is easy.
5. A person doesn't choose the bad things, only the good things.

Josdeb said:
I say that I have never consiously decided to be gay, yet I am.
I never said that you did.
1: I didn't say I was a whore, either.
2: I never equated some and everyone.
3: Did you "choose" the gender that you are attracted to, or did you just "know"?
4: Untrue. I just had a Diet Coke. I'm happy. That choice was pretty easy.
5: Very true. I'd never choose a Diet Pepsi.
6: Lists are rather poor attempt to advance a discussion or idea. (Tho, they're fun to counter when I'm very tired and feeling sarcastic.)
 

Takoto

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Wut. I thought it still wasn't proven that sexuality was decided by genes. :/

Ether way I'm bisexual and I don't care. It's the choice of an individual person, not their parents, or friends, or anyone.
 

Valksy

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I'm gay. I was born gay. I believe that my upbringing and society around me made it easier for me to stand up and say that and not try to hide it or be something that I am not.

I would refuse to take the test and really do not like the idea of designer babies. Choosing whether your baby is gay or straight is as distasteful to me as choosing what colour their eyes will be.

I am also in my mid 30s and have been on the wrong end of hate speech and hate-fuelled behaviour. In theory I guess I would not wish that on anyone. But like other things that try us in our lives, it builds character and shapes us as who we are. Best I would do if I had a kid that expressed themself as gay or bi or trans is to move somewhere I could feel they would be safer and be there to support them and help.