Poll: I'm torn... What should I do?

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theComposer

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Talk to your friend about it. If he's a really good friend of yours, you owe it to him to let him know what's going on and ask if he's ok with it. If he's not a real good friend, still talk to him, but if he's not ok and you really want to date this girl, stand up for yourself and do what you want to do.
 

crudus

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<a href=http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=bro+code>Urban Dictionary states she is off-limits

4.If a girl falls into the following criteria, she is off limits forever until the end of time:
A. Was an ex-girlfriend.
B. Your Bro specifically told you he wanted her.
C. Is you're Bro's sister.
However, if it's your Bro's cousin, well she's up for grabs, and you're welcome to rub it in his face for years to come.
 

Flare Phoenix

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I think you need to sit down and talk with the girl, and figure out where you two stand before discussing it with your friend. I'm sorry to say, but it does sound like you are jumping the gun a little bit. You said it yourself you're "pretty sure" she is interested in you (meaning you don't know for sure). So she may just see you as a friend as well.

Also, if you do eventually talk it over with your friend, expect him to get angry. If he is a good enough friend he'll hopefully come to understand, but you don't have a brilliant position here. Don't try to make him out to be the bad guy.

Basically, make sure she is interested in you before proceeding. Sorry if this sounds harsh, but it sounds like you are jumping to conclusions a bit.
 

kalakashi

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AccursedTheory said:
Strip your mind of lust and compare your friendship with your desire for her. Than make a decision.

Keep in mind though, if you pick her, you are a shitty friend. Congratulations.
I completely disagree with this; you do not have to make a choice between them. If you make your intentions clear to both of them, keep it all above board, then it's not your fault: you cannot control how you feel. And in all honesty, unless he's in proper love with her, then he'd be a shitty friend from keeping you from her.
 

Shawshanker

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Sodoff said:
dude

Bro's before Hoes.
This.

Welcome to the site Mr. Twitch! I must say though, not a good first impression. In line 5 you wrote "wo" instead of "two". Also you made a thread about a girl, which personally I am sick of.

I'm just kiddin' with ya man! Have fun on The Escapist!
 

Wayte

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Don't date her. If your friend is really into her, it'll just cause ALOT of problems. That may involve violence, depending on his temper.
 

Paksenarrion

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Tell her you'll only go out with her if she has a threesome with your friend.

Then watch as you burn down both bridges. Afterward, ask people if they wanna know how you got your scars.
 

Riobux

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Depends what your friend is like. If you think that he'll flip and act irrational, don't bother full stop. If you think he'll be okay just knowing, then talk to him about it. I wouldn't dive in there with her, unless you don't mind losing a friend.
 

ottenni

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Talk to your buddy about this. You don't want to be cutting your friends lunch, that would be baaaaaaaaaad. So talk to him about it, really.

Bros before hoes man.

And welcome!
 

LongAndShort

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If you did it, you'd be a dickhead. Don't be dickhead.

Your mates been working hard at this, it'd be wrong for you to come in now. Instead I'd try and convince her to give him a go.
 

Trivun

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I swear to Anoia that I will murder anybody who says 'Bros before Hoes', or has already done so.

Seriously. That's the stupidest rule I have ever heard and it does not exist. never has done, and never will do. Anyone who subscribes to that is an idiot.

The whole thing is up to you. If she's interested in you, and you like her, then go for it, regardless of anyone else. You aren't controlled by anyone, she isn't controlled by anyone, and your friend has absolutely no right to decide whether or not you can date someone just because he also likes the same girl. That would just be wrong.

So I say, do whatever you want, and anyone who tells you otherwise isn't worth listening to.