Hey, I'm gay and I have three priests in the family. Go figure.
That being said, yes it is genetic, but the genetics of it are complicated.
First of all, homosexuality comes in different 'flavours' from slightly bisexual to as gay as can be (wiki the Kinsey scale).
This means there must be not one gene, but several that cause homosexuality.
It's like your hight: the more 'tall' genes you inherit the taller you are, but there isn't just one gene that will make you tall.
That and even if you have the genes to be gay, those genes might not come to expression.
Studies have shown that whether or not these genes are expressed depends on the amount of testosterone you had in your mothers womb at the time your hypothalamus was formed. This doesn't depend on your genes, but on those of your mother.
In the end, you have to be really 'unlucky' to be gay. It's not a coincidence that it's quite rare.
Templar9 said:
How can there possibly be a 'gay' gene, nine out of ten cases gay people do not have children, if there was a gene the number would be greatly less that one in five.
LimaBravo said:
Dont be an idiot. How can a gene that eliminates a organism from the reproductive pool be genetic ?
Its in experience thats its primarily nurture.
Lots of people carry at least some gay genes, without them ever coming to expression.
They are straight, have kids and can still have gay kids.
There are theories that women carrying the gay genes are actually more fertile than women who don't.
This also helps keeping those genes in the population.
These two things explain why gay people don't go extinct, even if they don't reproduce.