I don't have anything profound to say about this, except: yes, but it's hard.
I know I've tried, some of those girls are great people, but it most often really is better to just let them go.
I'm not saying it's impossible, but it really is one of the hardest things I've ever tried.
Hold on, I haven't even read the OP yet.
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ADDED: wow, long distance ey? Well, it sounds as if you've given it as much of a try as you're going to get something out of. Let her go. If she's long distance, this shouldn't be difficult, you won't meet her unexpectedly or anything.
Just send her a message telling her you're convinced it's better this way, say something sweet, and ask her not to answer, because you won't. She'll get over it. And you'll move on with your life. You gotta keep movin', man. Taking only the most essential bagage with you.
I know I've tried, some of those girls are great people, but it most often really is better to just let them go.
I'm not saying it's impossible, but it really is one of the hardest things I've ever tried.
Hold on, I haven't even read the OP yet.
brb
ADDED: wow, long distance ey? Well, it sounds as if you've given it as much of a try as you're going to get something out of. Let her go. If she's long distance, this shouldn't be difficult, you won't meet her unexpectedly or anything.
Just send her a message telling her you're convinced it's better this way, say something sweet, and ask her not to answer, because you won't. She'll get over it. And you'll move on with your life. You gotta keep movin', man. Taking only the most essential bagage with you.