Poll: Is sex an important component of your life?
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sex is really important when you're getting it or at least have a good chance of getting it, ie in a relationship. if you are in a relationship and they refuse to have sex with you, you don't have a relationship you have a friendship
as for it being funny, it's overly funny, not just because of what ppl think about it but how they act about it and think about it. it is one of the few things i've learned from years of reading Dan Savage's column and listening to Sunday Night Sex Show. also from listening to what ppl think about sex itself, girls that saddleback and all the odd "you can/can't get pregnant if/from/when ..." type stories that go around
as for it being funny, it's overly funny, not just because of what ppl think about it but how they act about it and think about it. it is one of the few things i've learned from years of reading Dan Savage's column and listening to Sunday Night Sex Show. also from listening to what ppl think about sex itself, girls that saddleback and all the odd "you can/can't get pregnant if/from/when ..." type stories that go around
I've had sex with a few people several times. Really it kind of got old around the 13th-15th timeDread_Reaper said:
Except the only reason any of us are here is because of people fucking, and for the species to continue our purpose is to fuck, too?Bulletinmybrain said:
It doesn't get much bigger than that. Being human just complicates things and at a base level we have needs. Just remember that in a world of almost 7 billion people, almost nobody's life will ultimately mean very much.
Horny most of the time but can live without if need be. Am in a long-term relationship so all good. Call me old fashioned but one night stands or short little flings dont feel good and I'd preffer to avoid them.
My boyfreind plays D and D all the time and is a complete nerd so no exuse.
My boyfreind plays D and D all the time and is a complete nerd so no exuse.
Virgin. At 24.
Now, next I'm supposed to tell you about my excuse for that, right? Right.
Part apathy, and part social awkwardness and low self-esteem, I suppose. It wasn't until after I'd recovered from the rather crushing failure of an online relationship that I finally decided it was time to actually start actively looking for someone. Since then I've very briefly dated two girls I met through online dating services. One of them I'm still friends with (I like her, but don't feel like anything else is possible), while the other was just so anti-social and boring that even I couldn't deal with her.
But things aren't bad. I've been talking to yet another girl for the last two months. She seems to like me, and seems set on us meeting, but at the same time things always get in the way on her end whenever we've made plans. She leads a busy life, and I suppose she wants us to have plenty of time for our first meeting.
I, on the other hand, have plenty of free time. I'm not sure what kind of message it sends to her that I almost without question accept that I have to keep on waiting, but I really, really like her, and feel that I have to see this through before I even consider someone else.
She has a Wii and is considering picking up playing World of Warcraft again soon, by the way. Had no idea when I first started talking to her, but it's a neat bonus that she plays video games, I think.
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I type too much.
Now, next I'm supposed to tell you about my excuse for that, right? Right.
Part apathy, and part social awkwardness and low self-esteem, I suppose. It wasn't until after I'd recovered from the rather crushing failure of an online relationship that I finally decided it was time to actually start actively looking for someone. Since then I've very briefly dated two girls I met through online dating services. One of them I'm still friends with (I like her, but don't feel like anything else is possible), while the other was just so anti-social and boring that even I couldn't deal with her.
But things aren't bad. I've been talking to yet another girl for the last two months. She seems to like me, and seems set on us meeting, but at the same time things always get in the way on her end whenever we've made plans. She leads a busy life, and I suppose she wants us to have plenty of time for our first meeting.
I, on the other hand, have plenty of free time. I'm not sure what kind of message it sends to her that I almost without question accept that I have to keep on waiting, but I really, really like her, and feel that I have to see this through before I even consider someone else.
She has a Wii and is considering picking up playing World of Warcraft again soon, by the way. Had no idea when I first started talking to her, but it's a neat bonus that she plays video games, I think.
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I type too much.
I'm a Christian, and the teachings forbid premarital sex and adultery. So I am a Virgin...and really...the many opportunities to get laid have presented themselves and I pass it up. To be honest...I don't want to screw everything that moves, because not everything that moves is someone I would be willing to A. Have kids with and B. Marry.
To me sex isn't vital to existance per say...its more of a thing to have lots of when you first get married, then slow down a bit as you get older and you have a couple of kids.
To me sex isn't vital to existance per say...its more of a thing to have lots of when you first get married, then slow down a bit as you get older and you have a couple of kids.
Damn straight. There's nothing that clears your mind like sex. I'm sure every man will agree that at the point of ejaculation, there is literally not a single thought going through your mind - very much a spray and pray momentCaptainEgypt said:
Sex also boosts confidence for about 24hours afterwards... that is unless you got "the tap" (kudos if you know the reference)Also, if you are constipated, sex helps that too.
That made me lol.r4ndom said:
BUT THAT....how the hell....wha....ah......HOW!?! Did you find that out. That left me speechless for 30 seconds before I had images.r4ndom said:
Exactly. It's a natural process that is proven to be healthy for you and we all have access to it.r4ndom said:Damn straight. There's nothing that clears your mind like sex. I'm sure every man will agree that at the point of ejaculation, there is literally not a single thought going through your mind - very much a spray and pray moment
Also, if you are constipated, sex helps that too.
Sadly, the answer to this question is yes - and sadly I've paid a very high price for that to happen. It even came to a point when once I had 3 "girlfriends" at once.
To be honest, I don't want that anymore.
Too many problems emerged in the end and it just wasn't worth all the hazzle.
Also, I agree with the OP. I don't go for the random encounters stuff. I just can't.
To be honest, I don't want that anymore.
Too many problems emerged in the end and it just wasn't worth all the hazzle.
Also, I agree with the OP. I don't go for the random encounters stuff. I just can't.
I'm pretty sexually active with my fiancé...wow I just wrote that descriptor for the first time, still getting used to it...anyway, I'd say it's healthy and important. A strong relationship helps and in its own way can be just as or more important, but there is something to be said for appeasing primal notions, so long as it isn't something you're doing behind someone's back. It should never run your life, but its something to make time for.
The good workout thing is a lie though. You burn more calories in the same amount of time on a treadmill on a walk setting. It's healthy for other reasons, but you'd have to be pounding every waking hour to lose weight from it.
The good workout thing is a lie though. You burn more calories in the same amount of time on a treadmill on a walk setting. It's healthy for other reasons, but you'd have to be pounding every waking hour to lose weight from it.
I guess I'm always thinking about sex because I'm always thinking about it, 'oh hottie alert!' when I pass a cute guy in the street (happens like 5 times a day average), or I'm reading porn or something.
But I'm not in a relationship, so no sex for me and that's fine really. I went through a casual phase and it just wasn't that satisfying, like after it would be 'was that really worth it?' It wasn't, so I'd rather just wait for a nice guy who wants more than a one night stand.
I have my porn and imagination, I can make do with that.
But I'm not in a relationship, so no sex for me and that's fine really. I went through a casual phase and it just wasn't that satisfying, like after it would be 'was that really worth it?' It wasn't, so I'd rather just wait for a nice guy who wants more than a one night stand.
I have my porn and imagination, I can make do with that.