ninjablu said:
phwbt said:
crazyhaircut94 said:
Have you ever had sex every day for a period longer than a week? Two weeks? A month? After a while, it can become routine and boring. It's much better if it just happens when it happens IMHO.
Someone needs to get creative.
Let's see, Have you ever tried having sex... and using her sex toys at the same time?
Hmmmmmmmm?
Or maybe just getting one of those one foot tall plastic kiddie pools from Costco or Walmart or something and filling it with chocolate?
HHHHHHMMMMMMM????
Me thinks not.
Sex will never get old as long as you don't let it.
First off, to answer your questions, #1 yes, #2 no. I'm not really into chocolate.
Second, I said it can become routine and boring. I don't let it, and I think part of that is the fact I don't push my partner to have sex every day. Maybe I'm taking this from my viewpoint as I am in a committed monogamous relationship, but sex every day isn't exciting. No matter what, I feel it will eventually turn into a routine. Part of being creative is making her wait. I don't know about other people, but if I tease my wonderful lady and leave her waiting, there comes a point where she decides she's going to jump my bones no matter what. If you get someone to do that to you, let me tell you, you're in for a treat. Getting a girl into the right mindset is very important to good sex. Making her wait helps build anticipation. Anticipation = good. Period. I'd rather have great sex a few times a week than average sex every day.
Finally, I feel if you had sex EVERY DAY, your "use her toys" and "chocolate kiddy pool" tricks would get old really fast. Filling her with anticipation and making sure she's not distracted or uncomfortable is a tried and true recipe for success. Once again, this is just my opinion and I am basing it on my particular circumstances. I believe there are very very few things people would actually be excited by if it happened to them every day.