funcooker11811 said:
Num1d1um said:
Oh god, just snip all of that
I can do the snipping too.
I like how you're already calling me a nutjob before I even made the statement you think I'm gonna make. And also, you have to admit that the person I'm arguing with, congratulating another user on their first post because it agrees, raises suspicion. But alts is not the topic.
You asked why on earth bullies are a problem to begin with. Whatever the answer is, I'm sure it's not likely to be "We allowed them to call people names". Guess what's gonna happen when you actually outlaw verbal bullying among children. You think it's gonna stop? Of course not. It'll get worse. Because now you've given the bully another incentive to talk shit. We all know kids do stuff they're not supposed to to be cool, to rebel, or simply because there's that little thing in our minds that makes something we're imminently forbidden to do desirable. Kinda like how you think about the pink elephant when I tell you not to do it. It's the same mechanic that makes abstinence such a stupid thing. Bullying is not something you can solve. Neither is war, by the way, or any kind of conflict. You can dampen it, and, through a legal system, you can punish conflict creators and provide exemplary deterrent to make the rest of the population less likely to create conflict, but it's still gonna happen. Making it illegal will not fix bullying.
You're saying that standing up to bullies is fighting fire with fire, but you don't provide any other method of fighting fire. Tell me, what is the water of that analogy? I assume fire is verbal assault. So water would be.... physical violence? Doubt it, judging from your post. Authority intervention? Doesn't work, everyone knows this. Preventative methods? Apparently, but I explained in the paragraph above why outlawing bullying won't stop it. And you can blatantly see this. If verbal assault is already a crime, which it is, why are we even having this conversation? Because verbal assault still happens. Shows how effective that law is. And yes, widening freedom of speech is not gonna help the victim. So what. The assailant deserves his right as much as the victim does, as it is with any other human right. I won't start talking about article 3, but it's pretty much the same issue.
And lastly, when you step into the territory of defining the gray borders of a gray version of freedom of speech, who is gonna define them, and how? We know that different things are offensive or hurtful to different people. As you said, I could make a joke about gays and some might consider it verbal assault on their person while others will laugh. They could say I was actively trying to hurt them, I could say that I wasn't, how do you determine who's right? Are you gonna make verbal conflict laws case-laws? You say you draw the line where it negatively impacts others, well, that's not one line, and it's not very straight either. So are you gonna have some wonky imaginary boundary that doesn't apply to a lot of people and will undoubtedly create conflict in the very situation supposed to solve an issue, or are you gonna accept that some people may be offended, but have a proper, absolute freedom for citizens?
A person's right to be offended is also part of free speech. Some people may feel assaulted by words, too fucking bad for em. Conflict is part of life. Considering concurrent civilized societies, verbal conflict is probably the most petty of them. People all around the world are fucking dying every single day, and here in first-world countries we have people trying to suppress the foundation of modern civilized nations because someone said something mean to them.
One last thing, this has nothing to do with anarchy. Quite the opposite. It has to do with consistency and avoiding hypocrisy on the side of the state. And yeah, censorship is exactly what you're advocating. Forbidding someone from saying stuff because others might feel threatened or offended. This is exactly what censorship is. Always under the pretense of protection or security. Whether or not a piece of talk negatively impacts someone's life somewhere is entirely dependant on the supposed "victim"'s subjective perception of the speech or talk delivered. The speaker's intent becomes irrelevant at this point, because the listener may very likely misinterpret it, or simply make a wrong assumption, because his perception of the said statement is subjective. You don't base laws on subjective experiences of individuals. So treating every spoken or written piece of speech as an inherently neutral document and leaving the subjective effect up to the listener/reader is a way more reasonable and a way more effective way of looking at speech under the law than to have individuals dictate vague guidelines based on their personal feelings.