Poll: Just realised I am bisexual

[thedailylunatic]

Right on, smash the patriarchy... wait " through some deep thought and reflection"... did you actually had a sexual experience with someone of your own gender? I mean, it's easy to think about it, but when you are standing in the moment and the cock's out of the bag (if you are a man that is), your past heterosexual experiences won't work that well for you, and going all the way can be intimidating.

Oh well, at least you are considering it Queer Jihad!

Smash the patriarchy?

What if SadakoMoose is a guy? Wouldn't gaying up just double the evil gender privilege and concentrate the vile masculinity? I thought that the only way us guys are supposed to fight patriarchy is by getting a sex change or slitting our wrists.

He is a guy D:

Yeah... well just don't tell Valerie Solanas X_D

 

[Alkaline]

I thought for a brief period that I was bisexual, yes.

But, as it turns out, I never really had any feelings towards women.

Not really sure how I should feel about that.

 

[CarlMin]

Overall, being bisexual should be a good thing. Being able to find interest in both genders could be really useful! (Technically)

What? Seriously?

How come this guy can get away with posting an entire thread about something as trivial and common as bisexuality when I get labeled an attention-whore for posting a thread about my love for a fictional dog!? *rages and kicks something on my way out*

OP: No offense against you or anything. You seem real cool and all.

It's probably a difference in how society takes the difference between the two. Being bisexual and homosexual are becoming more accepted in today's culture while being interested in a fictional dog isn't. To bad it has to be that way.

True, but you are obviously not like that. You didn't have to accept me and you don't gain anything by doing it, and you might have gained more support if you tried to be witty on my expense instead of replying in a respectful manner just now. So there are exceptions

Possibly because it is trivial and common. Its something everyone can relate to.

Yours, as I'm sure you don't mind me saying, is an exceptional case. It was too different for most people to accept.

And you too of course

 

[tokae]

I believe biromantic is the term your searching for good sir, as in you might have romantic feelings but not sexual towards males.

Oh, so that's what it is. Thank you, thanks a lot my friend.

You're welcome, my lad. I only stumbled upon this term fairly recently myself.

Yea, I can see that, it's not a term I've heard before.. Weird actually.

And to get some OT on this topic: Well, hmmh.. Kudos to OP I guess

 

[Communist partisan]

Ok so, through some deep thought and reflection, I have come to realize that I am in fact a Bisexual. I am totally unashamed of this, and now have this strange feeling of solidarity with my favorite LGBT famous people. Definitely not just confused, as I have made sure that I really do like both.
So escapist, now what?
Anyone else one here?

Welcome to the club, comrade!

You are not alone, just so you know. Never be ashamed for what you are and feel.

 

[radioactive lemur]

I'm gay, but damn, I wish I was bi. It seems like the perfect sexuality. It'd be cool if everyone in the world was bisexual. No wondering what sexuality someone is if you want to ask them out... It'd be pretty crazy.

It would kind of suck in some ways too though, especially when declining a date. Personally I've always found "I'm a lesbian" much more appealing than "I won't go out with you because I don't like you", even when I'm almost positive she's lying about being a lesbian.

 

[feauxx]

this poll is pretty useless don't you think? if you want to accurately measure 'something' in context at least. if not and you just wanted to attach something people could click on then ignore this .

but this way the amount of people voting 'men' doesn't mean that they are gay, they could be votes by women, and the people voting for 'women' could be straight guys or gay girls.

#women

 

[Shirokurou]

Conglaturations!

As for me, I'll stick to my healthy interest in women and my not-so-easily-explainable hobby to write yuri...

 

[SadakoMoose]

I'm going to classify myself as straight but also into house plants.

Or trees...
Like fluttershy

 

[Eclectic Dreck]

That's just something feminazis and the media like to tell you. No, women don't date/sleep with men because they pity or settle for them, yes they actually do enjoy sex with men, and yes, they find men of their personal preference physically attractive. I've got lots more common sense revelations if you'd like some.

I recognize the truth of what you're saying. I just don't have the perspective necessary to understand it.

 

[drisky]

At the same time, you roughly doubled the amount of people you can conceivably date. That's pretty cool.

More like ten percent, considering the majority of people aren't in to their own gender. And like you said you lose the monosexuals that are put off by the idea.

As for me, its a maybe Bisexual. I know I like girls, and I've been attracted to guys (not just famous ones ether), but I can't confirm if I would have sex with a guy. So whatever, I just keep on rolling with it. Whatever happens will happen.

I agree... hence the qualifier "conceivably" ;D

From all I've read on the subject, biological male bisexuality doesn't exist and is a purely psychogenic phenomenon. Again, that's subject to trollstorm. If you're a dude who likes both, you're probably either just gay or just straight + confused (according to the research, anyway). If you're a chick who likes both, the research actually indicates you may be in the majority (the research on that one is a real funny one).

I've heard none of this study, I have heard of this study though.

Its more than just three things, bisexuals have different levels of preferences.
In any case I know I'm in to women, so I'm not gay. I'm also In to monogamy, so I'll eventually stay with one person, and by the transitive property, one gender. Then whether or not I'm bisexual will be a moot point anyways.

 

[DazBurger]

I a heterosexual male, and I cant ever see that change...

I just find male part repulsive... It extends to such a degree that I cant enjoy porn, as it almost always involves a man... WWHHHYYYY!?

So on the bright side I don't have to go though the struggle some people has to.

On the not so bright side, it also means that I will probably never get sexually involved with anyone but my hands and socks.

 

[vic_elor]

The hardest part about being Bi is that you are neither gay nor straight (American Societies two standard options)... In theory you'd think this would be the perfect option for all-inclusiveness but in practice it tends to be more isolating. While you get to share somethings with all groups you also guarantee that you will not fully agree with either main group.

Not that I would change myself if I could as personally I couldn't see any other option in life but... it's strange to be viewed as an outsider in both camps.

 

[NezumiiroKitsune]

Eurgh, my sexuality is dull, just women. Yeah, another straight man, just what humanity needs with it's dwindling population. We should really put ourselves on the endangered species list.

Not that I haven't contemplated my sexuality a few times in my life, and settled more than once on a position of straight until body informs me otherwise. Truth be told I'm still at that position, if I started having feelings for a cute red-headed hyacinth I wouldn't argue with myself because I voted "women" on the escapist.

Too much exposition, but I don't like short messages =P

 

[Zaik]

That's just something feminazis and the media like to tell you. No, women don't date/sleep with men because they pity or settle for them, yes they actually do enjoy sex with men, and yes, they find men of their personal preference physically attractive. I've got lots more common sense revelations if you'd like some.

I recognize the truth of what you're saying. I just don't have the perspective necessary to understand it.

Right, well, that's kind of the point. If you could find men attractive you'd never put up with the crap women do.

 

[Irony's Acolyte]

What? Seriously?

How come this guy can get away with posting an entire thread about something as trivial and common as bisexuality when I get labeled an attention-whore for posting a thread about my love for a fictional dog!? *rages and kicks something on my way out*

OP: No offense against you or anything. You seem real cool and all.

It's probably a difference in how society takes the difference between the two. Being bisexual and homosexual are becoming more accepted in today's culture while being interested in a fictional dog isn't. To bad it has to be that way.

True, but you are obviously not like that. You didn't have to accept me and you don't gain anything by doing it, and you might have gained more support if you tried to be witty on my expense instead of replying in a respectful manner just now. So there are exceptions

Ai, there are exceptions. I'm looking forward to the day that people stop worrying about what category of sexuality they fall into and what they're "supposed" to like and just be interested in things.

I find this image does a great job of how I see the whole deal.

 

[bob-2000]

I'm lesbian, but I'd be up for being with a guy, I guess.

Mostly women.

 

[Vohn_exel]

I plan on dating a girl at some point in my future. At the moment I'm by myself because I'm too lazy and shy to go out and get a girl, lol.

 

[Unesh52]

I have seen guys that I would have sex with, but the parts that make me prefer them to other guys are their markedly feminine aspects. Hairy, buff men turn me off. So do hairy, buff women... I guess my sexuality is really determined by body shape and grooming habits, rather than gender. Guess I'm bi then? Not a terribly important question to me. I know I like women, and I'm in a very loving relationship with one now <3

 

[RA92]

Er, deep thought and reflection? It's pretty much a linear business for me.

Boner? Yes / No