Poll: Masturbation and you.

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lechat

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Bara_no_Hime said:
lechat said:
most women struggle to achieve orgasm from anything but clitoral stimulation so clitoral stimulation during intercourse is an easy way to near guarantee an orgasm for the woman
Most women? I find that very hard to believe. I've never had trouble getting a woman off vaginally (with fingers or toys). So either I've only dated the lucky few, or "women can't achieve orgasm except from clitoral stimulation" should actually read "most men suck at sex".

Or maybe I'm a magical lesbian sex goddess. One of those three options.
http://drphil.com/articles/article/371
http://www.thedoctorstv.com/main/content/The_Big_O
http://goaskalice.columbia.edu/orgasm-alone-not-partner
http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/article/sexual-difficulties-female-difficulty-female-orgasmic-disorder
http://abcnews.go.com/Health/ReproductiveHealth/sex-study-female-orgasm-eludes-majority-women/story?id=8485289
http://www.yourtango.com/questions/how-do-i-orgasm-during-sex-and-without-clitoral-stimulation/
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20110330214729AATgUp3

and on and on and on
 

Nightmare99

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2: 3-6 per week is probably average
3: Yes
4: I would say less (only so much in the tank)
5: No
6: Hell yeah. If you go long enough without some form of relief it will even become physical pain.
7: Who said that? No, of course not.
8: About the same I guess. It ebbs and flows a bit like everything though.
 

Nightmare99

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Bara_no_Hime said:
lechat said:
most women struggle to achieve orgasm from anything but clitoral stimulation so clitoral stimulation during intercourse is an easy way to near guarantee an orgasm for the woman
Most women? I find that very hard to believe. I've never had trouble getting a woman off vaginally (with fingers or toys). So either I've only dated the lucky few, or "women can't achieve orgasm except from clitoral stimulation" should actually read "most men suck at sex".

Or maybe I'm a magical lesbian sex goddess. One of those three options.
I've always found it varies. Some women will have multiple orgasms during foreplay and some require a more deft touch and a bit of work. Given time, I could probably figure out how to get most women off, but sometimes when it is only a one time thing, you just don't hit the spot.

Like Dave Chapelle said: "Premature ejaculation? I don't even believe in that. If I cum it was right on time!"
 

blindthrall

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I whack the mole every day. It's a stress release valve that keeps me from staring at a woman's boobs while I'm talking to her. And while what I'm in probably wouldn't be viewed as a relationship by most people, I do get some at least once a month. I've never found an over- or underindulgence to affect me one way or the other, but too much looking at porn has overstimulated me before to the point I couldn't perform. Now, we're talking about a lot of porn. Like a screensaver I just left on all the time. But I usually don't look at porn before I jack off, and when I look at porn I usually don't masturbate. So I'm probably some kind of outlier.
 

lunavixen

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1. Female
2. Never
3. Never been in a relationship
4. N/A
5. I don't know
6. N/A
7. I think it's healthy to an extent
8. N/A
 

TheNewGuy

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1. I'm a dude
2. 'Bout... usually once a day. Sometimes I'll go without if I'm too busy or don't feel like it that day, of if I want to hold off now to have a better orgasm later.
3. Hard to say really.
4. I don't really keep track
5. You know, I've never asked. I'll have to get a nice lady to help me test this hypothesis. XD
6. Yeaah... pretty hard to focus on other things when I'm whacking off, except pron I guess. I can't exactly jerk off to homework... well I could, but I probably wouldn't do very well on it. XD
7. I have no idea, I doubt it's harmful though
8. I do it quite a bit more now than when I was younger, when I lived with my parents I didn't have as much privacy, you see. Now a have a bit more so I can full exercise my pent up energies when I need to.

I hope those answers help!
 

TheBestPieEver

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Never done it in my life (Though I have always felt that it makes me lame)
Yes
I guess that, if I did it. Being in a relationship would make me do it less, mainly because of time.
No.
No
Well, not necessarily masturbation. But having an orgasm twice a week can add some years to your life.
I certainly have less... intercourse now than when I was 19.
 

Clive Howlitzer

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1. Male
2. 2-3 times a week.
3. Yes
4. The same
5. Not really
6. Not really
7. I think its safe and have no opinions really.
8. Nope
 
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Bara_no_Hime said:
bluemistake2 said:


Also, in response to someone talking about a woman masturbating during sex... I've seen that in porn, and it always looks really odd. People actually do that? I'm aware that I have an easier time achieving orgasm that some women, but damn. That's gotta suck.
Actually it doesn't suck at all. Within a couple of attempts a person and their partner should be able to find a position that is highly comfortable for both as they have sex with one masturbating. With maximum comfort achieved it is a great boon to a person's sexual experience. For men, well we get sex which is good enough haha, for the woman they get more pleasure with a half hard and half gentle pounding combining with their direct clitoral stimulation.

My current girlfriend and I (fortunately) have sex frequently and while I have no trouble bringing her to orgasm within a reasonable amount of time (bout 5min) her pleasure is enhanced when she masturbates while I go at it. Its pretty much the difference between standard after effect of an orgasm and one where she comes close to passing out.

All about practice :D

OT: I'm a male, I masturbate about twice a day, am in a relationship and have sex about 4 - 5 times a week.
It increases my staying power and relieves my ever increasing amounts of stress so I think its pretty healthy for me. Since I've been in a relationship I;ve actually started doing it more for some reason. And other than discovering better materiel for fapping my technique hasn't changed.
 

bulbasaur765

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1. Are you male or female?
Male
2. How often do you do the deed?
3-6 times weekly
3. Are you in a relationship?
No
4. If yes do you do it more or less? If no do you do it more than you usually would?
No, I do not.
5. Do you believe it improves your performance in the bedroom or not?
I've heard that it could be used to improve 'stamina' but haven't tried it.
6. Focus; does reduced/stopped masturbation decrease or increase your ability to focus on things?
N/A
7. Do you believe that is is harmful or healthy? I.E. Reduce chances of certain cancers, mental health, stress or makes you go blind and grow hair on the palms of your hands?
If one receives a natural pleasure from it, then I would have to say it is healthy.
8. Is it different now opposed to when you were younger?
No.
 

Zyxx

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1. Male
2. Generally between 5 and 7 times a week, rarely more than once a day.
3. (raucous laughter)
4. Hmm... let me get back to you on that when I have some experience there.
5. See above
6. Oh, definitely decrease. If I don't masturbate it's much harder for me to focus on doing other things because all I can think about is how much I want to cum.
7. Definitely closer to healthy.
8. Well, I'm better at it than I was, I guess? I think I actually do it more now than I did in my teens.
 

Naal

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1. Female
2. I put 3-6 times a week. I'm assuming you meant sessions, not how many times I... *ahem* finish. In that case it would be 7+.
3. Married for almost a year.
4. More, actually. Since I got married and started having sex on a regular basis it has upped my sex drive a lot more. Some times my husband is at work and I get myself going. He has no problem with it, and it relieves my frustration.
5. I haven't seen any results which indicate one or the other.
6. Same as above.
7. Haha, no, unless you're masturbating with sand paper or a sharp edge, I don't think it's harmful. Masturbation has shown to reduce the chance of testicular cancer in men... So yay, I guess.
8. I didn't start doing it until I was 18, so I guess it has evolved in the last few years. It really did help me discover my body and what gets me going.
 

Ivi942

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1. Female
2. Depends. Can completely forget about it for a few months or do it a few times a week.
3. Nope.
4. Never have been in one before!
5. Considering the fact that a lot of women seem to have trouble achieving orgasm, figuring it out early seems useful.
6. Usually it doesn't matter that much to me, unless I really want to do it and there's something preventing me from it. I tried not to do it at all when I was younger, all it did was make me feel guilty.
7. Too much might cause soreness, but there's nothing wrong with it otherwise.
8. Nowadays I finish a few times in a row instead of one, but that's about it.
 

Blunderboy

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I?ll answer, though I doubt anyone is reading the men?s answers.

1. Are you male or female?
I am le man.
2. How often do you do the deed?
Usually at least once a day.
3. Are you in a relationship?
I have a fuck buddy. Does that count?
4. If yes do you do it more or less? If no do you do it more than you usually would?
About the same.
5. Do you believe it improves your performance in the bedroom or not?
I?ve not heard complaints
6. Focus; does reduced/stopped masturbation decrease or increase your ability to focus on things?
No idea.
7. Do you believe that is is harmful or healthy? I.E. Reduce chances of certain cancers, mental health, stress or makes you go blind and grow hair on the palms of your hands?
Healthy as all hell.
8. Is it different now opposed to when you were younger?
Not really.
 

Sacman

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Sure, I'll bite...

1. Male...

2. Hmm, depends if my roommates home, I don't even think I could count, when he's not... let's just say, on a day home alone, 10-15 times, on a day when he is around, it's usually as low as not at all...

3. Kinda Sorta...

4. meh, not really...

5. I really wouldn;t be able to say, probably not...

6. Makes it way easier to concentrate... It's very noticeable...

7. Pfft, it's the closest thing to exercise I get...

8. Not really, I dunno... try to repress things like the past... so I can;t really remember...o_O
 

Jayemsal

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1. Are you male or female?
Transgender female.
2. How often do you do the deed?
1-3 time weekly.
3. Are you in a relationship?
Yes
4. If yes do you do it more or less? If no do you do it more than you usually would?
Neither. It is unaffected by my relationship.
5. Do you believe it improves your performance in the bedroom or not?
Irrelevant, my style of masturbation does not correlate to my sexual intercourse.
6. Focus; does reduced/stopped masturbation decrease or increase your ability to focus on things?
It does not seem to make a difference.
7. Do you believe that is is harmful or healthy? I.E. Reduce chances of certain cancers, mental health, stress or makes you go blind and grow hair on the palms of your hands?
It is scientifically proven to be healthy.
8. Is it different now opposed to when you were younger?
Very much different yes.

(This is relevant by the way. In my case.)
 

Eggsnham

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1. I am of the Male variety.

2. About once a day, give or take.

3. Nope.

4. If I am dating somebody, I tend to do it considerably less.

5. It depends. It can help with stamina and whatnot.

6. If I haven't done it for a couple of days, I definitely find myself thinking about sex more often.

7. Tends of thousands of years of human society says that it's relatively healthy, or at least harmless. Of course, everything in moderation.

8. Yes, very much so. I know what I'm doing, and have more control, etc. Also, I used to be super conflicted about whether or not it was a good thing when I was younger; the American sex ed programs are kind of half-assed. Seriously, I never heard a word out of any of my health teachers' mouths regarding masturbation until I was in high school. Of course, by that point, I'd already had an extensive knowledge of the act and didn't need any sort of education on the topic.

Also, as a side note, I find it silly whenever anybody says that they never masturbate. Especially with guys, our bodies practically do it for us if we put it off for an extended period of time. As for women, there have been a whole bunch of studies which clearly show that; to put it bluntly; women are just as horny as men. Maybe in different ways for different reasons, but it doesn't necessarily matter which road you take as long as you reach the same destination.

Obviously there are those who suffer from medical conditions, or the side effects of certain medicines which severely limit one's sex drive, but I can't imagine that these situations are as common as the number of people who claim to never masturbate seems to indicate.

TL;DR, I answer questions and ***** about things.
 

Ivi942

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Eggsnham said:
8. Yes, very much so. I know what I'm doing, and have more control, etc. Also, I used to be super conflicted about whether or not it was a good thing when I was younger; the American sex ed programs are kind of half-assed. Seriously, I never heard a word out of any of my health teachers' mouths regarding masturbation until I was in high school. Of course, by that point, I'd already had an extensive knowledge of the act and didn't need any sort of education on the topic.

Also, as a side note, I find it silly whenever anybody says that they never masturbate. Especially with guys, our bodies practically do it for us if we put it off for an extended period of time. As for women, there have been a whole bunch of studies which clearly show that; to put it bluntly; women are just as horny as men. Maybe in different ways for different reasons, but it doesn't necessarily matter which road you take as long as you reach the same destination.

Obviously there are those who suffer from medical conditions, or the side effects of certain medicines which severely limit one's sex drive, but I can't imagine that these situations are as common as the number of people who claim to never masturbate seems to indicate.

TL;DR, I answer questions and ***** about things.
My country's sex ed is about as bad as yours, then. I had had lessons on periods and only periods like 5 times before I even started having them, but no one even tried to explain what a clit WAS. I didn't even realize I'd achieved an orgasm before I read a book by this genealogist(bless her) because no one had ever bothered to TELL me you can have non-vaginal orgasms :/ Seriously, there's a lot of important things that I only learned over the internet...
 

Seydaman

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1. Are you male or female?
Male
2. How often do you do the deed?
A few times a week, it can vary.
3. Are you in a relationship?
No
4. If yes do you do it more or less? If no do you do it more than you usually would?
I do not have a basis, I have not been in a romantic relationship
5. Do you believe it improves your performance in the bedroom or not?
Not sure
6. Focus; does reduced/stopped masturbation decrease or increase your ability to focus on things?
Decrease
7. Do you believe that is is harmful or healthy? I.E. Reduce chances of certain cancers, mental health, stress or makes you go blind and grow hair on the palms of your hands?
Healthy
8. Is it different now opposed to when you were younger?
I am less enthused about it.