Something else.
I wonder when people will realize there really is no such thing as a 'neutral' choice. All decisions you make will be considered bad or good. Through action or inaction.
People asking for shades of gray. It doesn't ultimately mean anything. Some of the complaints i have heard are silly.
Take Bioshock. People complain your only options or Kill or save the little sisters. The only other option would be to walk away, do not harvest them or save them and leave them to be murdered by another splicer. Wait, wouldn't that technically be a poor choice seeing as you left a child to die. Not only but i have heard people complain about Bioshock "not rewarding them for only killing the first few girls then saving the rest". Realistically you should still get the bad ending. "Hey, i only killed 6 of the kids at the daycare! What about the 18 i didn't murder? Doesn't that count for something?"
No. In the real world Your actions are not worth points to be quantified. Saving twenty children does not excuse the 4 your murdered in cold blood for power. A more real system would be no matter how hard you try to be good the second you do something bad your demonized. Does that sound like fun? Its far more realistic. No matter how many gifts you give someone most will never forgive you for beating the shit out of them and taking there stuff.
Shades of gray? How many different ways do you want to do the same thing. Still no matter what you will not be neutral. No matter what your actions will be seen as good or bad by those around you. So which system is better.
I see a injured civilian! Should I:
Finish em off
Save
Ignore
Or...
Finish em off
Punch them to death
Drop rocks on them to death
Vapourize them
Make someone else kill them
Make them walk until they pass out and die
Torture them
Tickle them so they lose all there fluids slowly while laughing
Sit and stare at them till they bleed to death
Save them
Use electric powers to save
Use a med kit
Find a doctor
Call to see if there is a doctor
Call for a nurse
Go look for a nurse
Try and feed them food
Try and feed them water
Try and use nearby scraps as medical supplies
Ignore them
Go for ice cream
Have a coke
Chillax with a Kit Kat
Hug some puppies
Seriously do anything but heal or kill them. How many different ways do you need do nothing spelled out.
Still, ignoring the injured people can be see as an evil act.
In all seriousness the only way to truly be neutral is to have nothing to do with it from the beginning.
In Bioshock this would mean turning off the Radio and sitting cross legged in front of the bathosphere and wait to die.
In Infamous this would mean never leaving Zeke's place. Just sitting on the couch charging the batteries on the roof to watch TV. Even then it can be seen as doing a favor for Zeke keeping everything powered.
So the choice is yours. Play a game where they condense twenty different options into two or three clear options or play a game where every time a choice comes up you have to sift through thirty different options, all of them only having a small, if that, effect in difference to each other and no matter how good you are one mistake you make equals instant damnation in the eyes who saw you commit these crimes. Closing off entire portions of the games because you pissed someone off and they are holding a grudge against you for life. You know like real life.